Why she has told me that?

[Anonymous]

Once I was absent at school and when I came the next day this girl in my class told me “why didn’t u come yesterday“ and then after ”u better be here tomorrow” when we were leaving, why?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm, sounds like maybe that girl has a bit of a crush on you man! Here are some possible reasons she said those things:

- She noticed you weren't there and missed seeing you in class. Girls sometimes pay more attention to who's there than we realize.

- By telling you to be there tomorrow, she was trying to subtly let you know she wanted to see you again at school.

- Could be she likes talking to you or sitting near you in class and felt weird without you there.

- Maybe she thinks you're cute and has been trying to work up the courage to flirt with you more. That was her way of doing it without being too obvious.

- Girls don't usually point out when someone's absent or demand their presence unless they have some level of interest, you know?

I'd say just play it cool for now. But you could try smiling and saying hi to her more often to see how she reacts. If she seems shy but happy you're acknowledging her, there's a good chance she likes you bro! You never know till you try.

[Asker]

Yeah but she’s has a boyfriend but I like her aswell man lol!

[Oliverlogan263]

Ahh man, that complicates things! If she's got a boyfriend already that definitely means you gotta be careful here. On the one hand, it could be nice if she likes hanging out with you too. But you also don't wanna get in the middle of her relationship or anything, that would just be drama.

I get you like her too, it's hard not to like a girl you see all the time at school. But for now maybe it's best to just be cool friends. Don't make a move on her or anything while she's with her boyfriend, that wouldn't be right. Maybe they'll break up at some point and then you could see what's up, but for now just play it chill.

Keep talking to her and hanging out in class like normal. Make her laugh, be fun to be around. But don't flirt too hard or give her the wrong idea. Who knows, maybe down the road if they split she'll already like you as a friend. But let her relationship run its course first before trying anything. And don't tell her you like her either - that could mess things up and make it weird between you.

Just focus on being a good friend for now. And maybe spend time with other girls too so she doesn't think you're hung up on her, you know? Stay cool and be patient - maybe someday your chance will come. But let her figure her own stuff out first with her dude. Hang in there man, unrequited crushes are rough!

[Asker]

Okok thanks for the advices!

[ProbablyClueless]

Probably because she noticed that you weren't physically present at school, which stood out to her because she sees you at school more often than she doesn't.

[Asker]

Ok lmao

[ProbablyClueless]

Right? lol I'm a big fan of Occam's razor, when it comes to this kind of thing. The simplest explanation is usually the best.

[Asker]

Ok Nice!

[DarkOsiris]

She's either going to confess her undying love to you or kick your ass lol

[Asker]

Damn hope it’s the first one!