What are your thoughts on the slutty friends of females trying to be in a relationship?

[D_Bone_Steak]

So the slutty friend might be in a relationship, might not... but they always do one thing... and that's dragging other females in on their hunt for throbbing dicks. Otherwise committed females get exposed to constant down talk of their current man, put into situations, pushed to "just have fun" (cheating lite), and this spawn my question. Why does a chick that just wants some dick have to drag as many chicks with her? And then when she finds her own dick she just leaves a wake of devastated women that joined her on the dick prowl as if nothing ever happened. What is the purpose of all that? Why do they just not do it by themselves like a lot of us dudes do?

I guess the root of my question is why do chicks drag other people into their idea of fun. Vacations for instance... why is there always someone else that needs to go? Nobody wants to really go... but they'll push someone into going.

And in advance please forgive me for not mentioning "not all women." Yes, you're special or someone you know is special if they don't fit this general and typical stereotype. Congratulations, fuck off since you're not helping and just being a contrarian. I'm talking about a specific type of female here and that is definitely not all of you females. Know the fucking difference.

[DishLady]

Ok, so I think almost every woman has the "slutty friend" (SF) -- and the conservative gals have that human in their lives for a reason. You want to be a little more like that girl... so liberated and fearless... and yet that girl is completely nuts, so why are you friends with her? Is she your salvation project or are you HERS? (It's a trick question bc you're on each other's paths... you balance each other out.)

SF is dangerous, though, because you're right, she chases D, drags a bunch of dbags into her inner circle, which puts those dbags in the face of her kid (s), friend (s) and family members -- UGH... But who can stop her apocalyptic sexual rampage?

Research shows that sometimes it actually is part of an addiction, in which case she needs in intervention and professional counseling. Other times it's a cry for attention... or an adrenaline rush, like skydiving. She tells herself "this is fun" even though she's in the free clinic almost ever month for the plethora of ailments she's contracted and shared with her f-buddies/hookups.

A girl I once knew used to swing from guy to guy, latching on to each one for a couple of weeks then ditching to go find another one who was almost identical to the last... to the point that we would all get mixed up and think it was the same guy... She ended up in counseling. She still lapses from time to time and goes back to counseling... Her body count is remarkable (not in the good way).

Another woman who used to live next door to me... whose kid went to school with mine... married, divorced and hooked basically the identical guy, who lived with her the year I was getting separated... This one knocked on my door one morning after the kids were all in school. She was holding two glasses and smirking at me in a tight little lavender negligee, obviously looking for my soon-to-be-ex (STBE), who had just been escorted off the premises the day prior... for being an abusive, lying, cheating mf. Clearly something was itching her when I opened the door holding a wrench I was using because I had stuff to fix after my STBE tore through the house like a maniac; tbh I thought she was the super coming to help me fix the broken walls, shelves and other stuff... She looked so surprised that I was in my own home taking a personal day. "Oh," she said and tried to look around me to see if my guy was home. WOW. I told this shorty to scram and gave her his number and parents' address in case she needed an f-ing. (The look she gave me... so smug. You know she took the contact info? SMH... She moved out a month later.)

So the point of this morality tale is that there are women like that. If you don't want that energy in your life, don't allow it to be in your life, plain and simple. I don't have women like that in my life because they're seriously toxic and give all women a bad name and reputation...

[D_Bone_Steak]

Fucking A, well put.

[JTinSC1981]

Women bring their taken friends along on dick hunts because women are programmed to judge a guy solely by what their friends think of him. That's it. It's like taking your cousin who is a real estate appraiser along with you when you're house hunting.

Of course the friends have no more ability to judge guys than the girl on the dick-hunt but that's still what they do.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I get it, but I still can't shake that feeling that they're trying to bring their "friends" down with them. Like crabs in a bucket sort of deal.

[JTinSC1981]

Well that does happen exactly as you described.