Yesterday I went to hang out with a completely new group of people. First was a small get together of like 5-6 people. Then we moved to a night club with 5-6 more people.
In this party I met a pretty white woman, who was honist of the kind of man she wants. She didn't drop a list of demands exept that she wants the man to be rich so she could travel the world with his money. One our way to a night club in a car, I told her Porches are the ugly as fuck. She said, if he can afford it, his my man.
I do admire her honesty, but that honesty came with a price. It wouldn't feel like a relationship based on love, more like a business transaction or an exchange of benifits.
If you advertise yourself with money, you're just going to attract people like her. Males and females a like looking for a piece of the pie. I highly advise other dudes to pretend they're broke if they have money and just hit the gym and attract women that way. Buy a used car... wear stuff from a thrift shop... and guess what... Nobody is even going to know or care. I found this out early on when I was wearing jewelry and a watch that is really expensive... Gucci... the only reaction I got for it was "Is that even real?" That's it.
These women knew I wasn't a sucker that could be taken advantage of... so they didn't even care about the flashy shit after that.
Thank the Gods I came out of that phase of my life. It was attracting manipulators of all sorts. Life got easy when I just dressed like I was going on hiking trips and pretending I'm broke all the time. Living cheaper also made me a lot richer as well.
My only feelings about gold diggers in general... I don't want them in my life. I sit here and read these women complaining about only being wanted for one thing, but damn, I would rather be wanted for my 6 pack abs than as a piggy bank.
Golddiggers get intrested when they see your house, cars and status. They dont just buy into stories or clothes you wear. They stick around long enough to find out your place in the world of wealth.
Golddiggers male counterpart is a guy that is only in it for the looks, - flat stomach, round medium ass & tits, with way above avarage pretty cute face.
If someone dated me only for my looks, that I found atractive, I would be like, Oh Hell Yea. Girls can't handle to date a set if truth like that, nor want a guy who is the master of hiding this truth.
That's called "waiting at the finish line". Young women are meant to find a young man with potential and twist her yarn together with his to build a great life together. If all goes well, and they work as a team, they will triumph in life.
Some girls just say Eff it! I'm going to find a man who's already successful, and jump into the boat (or yacht) with him, so I don't have to do all the hard work of building his potential with him.
It's lazy and the man knows she's worthless to him, so she'll usually get the heave ho instead of the ring she's looking for.
Mixed feelings about this, do I judge people who only care about money? No. Do I think it’s the best qualifier in a relationship? No. But different people need different people. Maybe the guy she is looking for also doesn’t need an emotional element. At least she isn’t trying to deceive anyone lol
Same. I mean it isn't much if any different than those kind of guys who only care for the looks and nothing else. For shallow guys to be just as honist, it is a deal breaker for 97% of women, just like being liked for money is.
Yeah definitely. I understand why someone may feel some type of way when they hear that, pretty normal. But at the end of the day there is so many people out there we dont have to agree with everyone
The term "gold digger" gets used far more than it should these days. It's a weapon the male equivalent of feminists use to shame all women in response to feminists using "toxic masculinity" to shame all men. It's part of the gender war that is tearing men and women apart, which needs to stop if western society is to survive another generation. And the onus is on feminists to stop it, because they are the ones who started the gender war, and everything else has just been the perpetual vicious cycle they started.
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Anonymous
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Gold diggers first and foremost wouldn’t exist without men who are willing to give them money. There are men who do spend hundreds and thousands on women. I understand the frustration by men because most men don’t make enough to live the lifestyle of a wealthy man, but at the same time gold diggers present themselves as gold diggers. You approached that woman because you like her physical attributes well, there are men willing to pay for those physical attributes so why settle for some scrub who works at McDonald’s. It’s not like she really even has to have depth since men don’t see attractive women as people rather as objects so in retrospect, these women are the way they are by the men who put them in an objective box. Approaching a man for his money is literally the same as approaching a woman for her appearance because for a woman, beauty is currency.
I once met a guy who was honest about wanting sex from me and nothing else. Everyone said he was a ho and was disgusted but I really admired the honesty though. I think its great, that way you know whats up from the get go and dont waste any of your time
Why did you need to state her colour? Is that relevant? Has she got her own money, and wants a man with money, because you didn’t say. Some women (and men) choose to be gold diggers in the true sense of the word. Others just want to be treated to nice things. It’s personal choice and if both parties agree to it, fine. You can be in a relationship and provide in this way. It isn’t always just a transaction.
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Anonymous
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I appreciate them because when they let me know they're a gold digger upfront I can walk away right there.👍
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I hate gold diggers with a fury but a gold digger, that is at least transparent about her intentions is not someone i can really despise. I rather they come with such a warning label than being used maliciously.
Oh man, thats a lot. - A big house / Penthouse apartment - A luxury car - A first class planetickets plus 5 star hotels times 4 in a year - VIP access and limo service to major concerts, sports games, including Fifa and Olympic games - Occasional invites to meet and greet presidents, royal families around the world - She needs expensive clothes and accessories for showing off.
I knew of a million a year guy who couldn't afford it either so don't feel bad.
I think you would want a golddigger to give you a pa $ figure and it is up to her how it is spent once agreed to. Has to include plane tickets hotels restaurants etc etc
I think they are scummy, but its more the man's fault by letting these 💩 women fleece them out of their money all because most tend to physically look good and give them sex.
Disclosure up front always wins.. Give a chance to bail before committing and that communicative move proves integrity.. label mutually beneficial, and I think it's a flawless start:-)
There are millions of people eishing they had a home, health and good food to eat. Then there is guys like me who only dream of a pretty white girlfriend. Having to be rich kind of ruins the mood. That ain't even a girlfriend, just an honist user.
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