How do you feel about gold digger tests?

[Anonymous]

For those of you that aren't familiar with this:

If someone suspects their partner of possibly being unfaithful, they can put their partner through a series of tests in order to figure out if they'd actually cheat on them.

So, it's basically a setup. But it's completely up to the person (that's being tested) to accept the offer (of cheating).

The scenarios seem very real and they execute them in such a smooth way that the person never knows they're being tested until the confrontation at the end (if they've failed).

Do you think it's right? Do you think it's wrong? What are your thoughts on this?

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Thank you for your thoughts on this. I think I'll go have a donut now.

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+1 y

Reading y'all's comments made me eat 4 donuts!

[Jjpayne]

I personally think it's interesting... To me, it's so much better than assuming! Let them prove their faithfulness then be done with it! On the other hand, it's one of the worse things you can do for a relationship. Assuming distrust... It could actually break up a relationship if it's not done right. To do it without their knowledge, might even be a walkout and divorce. It's not hey, I was just kidding... It's hey, I did not trust you.

While it is a good way to catch someone you suspect of cheating, it's not good to use in an already healthy relationship. And even past that point, if someone was being faithful and you do this, even in a long mature relationship... They could still walk..

It's a smart idea but maybe not one that's good in practice

[Asker]

If the person passes, most probably just don't say anything 😂 they do this stuff so smoothly that the person doesn't know unless they tell them

[Jjpayne]

That is a good point 🤔

[Asker]

would be funny if they saw udy's videos one day and recognized someone 😂 then some questions would be raised!

[Jjpayne]

Lol 😂

[errorgoodnameunfound]

@NickyDayy Looking for a spamming, annoying, gold diggin', whore? Click the link above. :D

[MrWolf]

Not so sure the whole thing can go so worse in any case.

Nobody likes gold diggers. Used to be a problem as so many people lust for money and it's a real problem.

Was my problem in dating as businessman and a wealthy person. But you kind can see trough that mask in a short conversation or following their reactions.

But will never put someone trough that test because I don't want to go trough the same thing myself.
Doesn't feel right at all. No matter what they lust for is their own choice in life and they have thier own reasons for which nor i care nor i support them.

And yeah people sometimes lust after money 💰

So if I'm to say don't bother with them and move on.

[errorgoodnameunfound]

@NickyDayy Speaking of gold digging whores...

[MrWolf]

Lmao 🤣

[Minahh]

This is actually a really good idea how to test someone in a similar way. It's unbelievable how he just takes another unknown girls number like that and agrees to a date. I think it would work even if just like your best friend tried to do that for you because cheaters are just cheaters and they will do it at any given opportunity.

[Asker]

He does have older tests kinda like that

[WowwGirl]

I ain't saying I'm a gold digger , but I don't mess with no broke +++++++++ s

[WowwGirl]

Downvoted by the ball less mitch AGAIN 😂

[WowwGirl]

What the hell is your problem people , I could have meant wiggers, Mitch's, or Gentlemans..
Lawrd...

[yofuknutz]

I interpreted as being arrogant it doesn't matter what word or letters you trying to cover up it's the attitude behind that people are downvoting you I rather you use colorful language for a positive attitude.

[Juxtapose]

Maybe you should try not insulting the ever-increasing population of the poor, especially during a pandemic where people are losing their jobs & minimum wage has not been raised in 11 years?

Speaking as someone who has actually taken care of a homeless person before who would have had to live in the woods otherwise, I don't appreciate discrimination against the poor.

The guy I took care of is a lot better off these days and would have been in much worse shape without my help.

[yofuknutz]

^^^ I'm glad somebody brought this up one of these rich Pricks get a brick in their face and then they well realize the error and falling of their ways

[WowwGirl]

@yofuknutz threatening women
You gay? Short maybe 😎

[yofuknutz]

Who says I'm threatening woman your $2 feminist piece of shit I was referring to rich people but do as you wish you probably smell like rancid fish anyway

[es20490446e]

Asking a girl to date poor is like asking a man to date obese.

You people in USA take offense too easily 🤣🍮

Take the truth, and fuck off 🖕🤠

[Juxtapose]

@es20490446e As if women don't care about physical appearance?

Come on.

[es20490446e]

@Juxtapose https://youtu.be/s4AMtbRnnuY

[Asker]

@es20490446e - dude save some women for us man!

[WowwGirl]

@es20490446e ALBERTO!! ❤️❤️

[zeitgeist057]

There's a reason why they made this series and shows like it. Think about it. If the result was always that the partner refused and wouldn't cheat, then they wouldn't have a show at all. The whole concept would be thrown out and the shows never made.

But, because it is human nature, they are going to cheat more often than not. They are intentionally setting people up to fail and getting views on other people's heartache. I have my own opinions on monogamy, which are closely aligned with statistical data on prevalence of cheating, dating more than one person, breakups, divorce rates, etc. Maybe wolves and ducks mate for life, but humans are built more like the other 99% of heterosexually reproducing species. The whole idea of monogamy is a mythos perpetuated by culture.

Why? Because 2 is more than one. Because people get bored by routine and excited by someone or something new. Because no one person can fill all the needs of another. Because people are only as faithful as their options. You take any man or woman and show them their partner, then show them someone similar to their partner only faster, smarter, stronger, richer, more fit, etc. they are going to prefer the "improved" version. And there's always an "improved" version out there. No matter how smart, fast, strong, rich, etc, you are or think you are; there is always someone smarter, faster, stronger, richer, etc. It's just basic logic.

The reason we stay loyal is because of the golden rule: we want to be treated with respect, we don't want to get tossed out in the cold, so we treat others the way we want to be treated. But that often goes out the window if a person sees an opportunity to be treated just as well or better, if they simply give someone new a little attention.

Sorry this sounds so cynical. I actually am a big supporter and believer in love, intimacy, deeper connections and having lovers and friends for life. But I also am a realist and I see what I've seen in life over and over again.

[cheapshotbob]

i think its right , i have seen enough relationships end because one person was soo smooth they walked away making the ne they hurt feel guilty. what i dont get though is
why they even let it go there far? if you suspect the guy and you want to test that should be your brains trying too tell you something but your ignoring it. there is no test if your brain is giving you warning signs. dont question it, just go why give him a chance to get mad.

i mean as soon as you leave him theirs anther girl waiting proving how much of a man whore he is.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

Amazing. Someone managed to turn click-bait into a tv show. That's really impressive. And a series no less.

As far as the idea of a test goes, my opinion is that it's pointless. Everyone has their price. It's basically tricking your partner into revealing what their price is. And then you would equate how low that price is to what they think of you. And the answer is that no matter what price, it will hurt you plenty enough. So really when you think about it, it's sabotaging the relationship.

On that point, a person should consider why they would sabotage and destroy their own relationship.

[modelUN242]

I used to watch those pranks and at first I thought it was real but yeah... they're all scripted and fake. I'm pretty sure girls aren't that obvious in showing their gold digger nature. I would probably be subtle.

But a gold digger test? Yeah, I've been tested and passed because I'm not materialistic and I believe that money doesn't solely define a man.

[Asker]

Trust me, udy isn't scripted. People like "hoomantv" script their stuff though

[modelUN242]

UDY is so scripted, like c'mon... It's like the same story everytime.

[Asker]

It may seem like the same story because that's how humans are 😂 Same shit different day! It's not his fault there are so many unfaithful people out there. Specifically women of the west. Trust me, it's not scripted. It's planned and executed but not scripted.

[misanthropistkev]

I don't know topnotch seem pretty legit

[Asker]

Who's topnotch?

[andreasderjuengere]

I understand 'gold digging' to be motivated by material (istic) gain.
What I see here is rather a faithfulness test?
The 'test' itself is quite blown up; I think, it could be done easier, with less (technical) effort and still giving a correct output (result).
This clip -as I see it- is more a piece of entertainment fur US, than a... test.
Interesting to watch, though.
In general: it's kind of sad to feel the need for checking out my partner's loyalty; but better feel sorry, than safe (sic!).

[DiscomfortZone]

I would have dumped that bitch to the nine hells for putting me through this, as I'm always faithful. Always. The way I see it, someone who doesn't trust me enough and needs this test - is no good for me. And in general, if you don't trust your partner don't be with them!!

[Asker]

But if they do it and the person passes, wouldn't that be a good thing? Many just want to avoid future pain.

[DiscomfortZone]

That's the catch. Many of those who "pass" would be offended (and very rightfully so). That's why I say that if you don't trust your partner and you think you need this test - just dump them.

[Asker]

🤔 I get that

[es20490446e]

I liked this comment just because of the nickname (and avatar).

[VanillaSalt]

My thought is you don’t know what a gold digger is. A gold digger is someone that uses you for your money. What your talking about is a cheater.

[Asker]

Lookup the definition of a gold digger. This fits.

[VanillaSalt]

No no it actually does not.

[Asker]

A gold digger is a person who forms relationships with others purely to extract money from them, in particular a woman who strives to marry a wealthy man.

[leahzrc]

i am not for or against it, i guess i just feel neutral, i would pass it anyway lol

[Asker]

😂 would u really

[leahzrc]

i guess if i was in an unhappy relationship i would fail

[Asker]

Caught ya! 👮‍♂️

[leahzrc]

lmao

[Asker]

Ma'am, I'm gonna need you to platonically put on these handcuffs 🧵👮‍♂️

[leahzrc]

no problem ill just do what you say officer lol

[Asker]

👮‍♂️ good. because if u don't, I have an ego problem, so I'll probably have to frame you for something

[leahzrc]

go ahead I've got nothing to lose :p

[Asker]

surely you've got somethin 👮‍♂️ if you're trying to throw me off ma'am, it ain't going work. I didn't get this badge by being naive. I got it by being a badass. And I'm also still a badass

[leahzrc]

yes sir

[Asker]

alright Ima pat ya down now ma'am, don't try anything 👮‍♂️

[leahzrc]

*pulls out dish soap*

[Asker]

👮‍♂️ ma'am there ain't no oil spills round these parts! Why in seventh heaven do you have dish soap?

[leahzrc]

*squirts dish soap in your eyes*

[Asker]

AHHHH! GOD DAMNIT! NOT AGAIN!

*dispatch we have a 10-13, suspect is on the run. Send all the bOis! We eatin good tonight!*

[yofuknutz]

^^^^ try Motel 6 leave the light on for the both of yous

[SirJohn42]

Well I personally think they are great. Sad how a lot of thise types of shows only show women mostly. Buy guys cheat as well.
I think that some methods are pure sleezy but if you dont trust them go for it.
Dont think your lover will be so happy if you do it though.

[nelly83]

what if you're 48 and you're trying to date 18 yr old girls? without money, you won't be able to get them. why else would they go for you?

[Asker]

You have a point! Maybe that's why you don't see older guys on these shows though. 😂 Because they know that very fact.

[nelly83]

@Sonorous I don't think most 48 yr olds have any interest in dating 18 yr old girls. Its just that such perverts do exist. But its completely true though. Its hard attracting women at 48 without money. You would need to hire a wife, at that age

[misanthropistkev]

First off if your over 40 without at least 100 k to your name that’s sad

[nelly83]

@misanthropistkev 100k in savings is not even rich at all. You probably need at net worth of at least 250k and the heart to spend on her, before she pays you any attention

[Anonymous]

point where everybody reaches this point in life then they've had enough

[Itsmeh2002]

I think as a woman if the relationship is fresh and new under the sun then yes these type of test would be okay but if you dated me for a long time and you know I love you for you then you are "WASTING" my time being in this relationship

[Unit1]

I have mixed feelings about this.
I can understand when someone hires a private investigator to test their partner. Backstabbing and cheating these days happen on the regular.
But when you are targeted, it raises discomfort to say the least.

[Anonymous]

When suddenly appears a girl who has some connection with your girlfriend and offers you a date, be sure it's a trap.
If you say okay, most girls will take the bitter pill because they aren't better than you. They make a short drama show but everything will be fine in few days. But you will lose someone who really loves you, not just has an egoistic imagination of love.

[purplepoppy]

If a guy tried that shit with me I'd dump him on the spot then let all his mates run a train on me as revenge.

[ChrisMaster69]

See, lockdown, you forget about trains

[purplepoppy]

I wasn't thinking British Rail

[ChrisMaster69]

Trust me neither was I lmao

[ChrisMaster69]

For the foreign lot.

Train.. (Trainline is not just a ticket website lol)

An activity usually involving multiple males and one female. The males usually take turns fucking the female and just then switch off after they get their nut in. An avetard gets extremely horny all the time and always thinking of this activity with any female he sees.
"AYE WHO TRYNA RUN A TRAIN ON JULIA?"

[yofuknutz]

And I'm sure he will go around town telling people you have an STD from people holding a train on you

[Itsmeh2002]

You sure you want that as an revenge.. you not being a woman to yourself.. guys will see you as a thot more than a woman.. if he did something like this to you then all you can do is just leave not get revenge that will cause harm to yourself.. you wasting time to get revenge and not wasting that time to heal yourself this lockdown will be a great idea for people who need self healing and trust me you will feel great

[yofuknutz]

^^^^^this right here.

[Redred56]

Couldn’t help but laugh, my gold digger gave me a list of traits.
And I thank her for that! Ran into a fine woman I liked BUT she had just 1 of the traits and that’s
A Insta DQ.
Sorry but it takes not only money but time to get papers in line. Then you can get the things a
Gold Digger can/will take in an instant!

[Flirt254]

I'm sorry are you talking about a cheater or gold digger

[Asker]

What do you think

[Spade07]

I watched like 30 seconds of the video and thought guys don't cheat for money... They cheat for looks or boredom or because they go seduced be it by a girl or just reckless night. I don't believe a guy that really likes or love his beautiful girlfriend would leave her for a ugly chick who has money. I just don't believe that. Now if the other girl is cute then you're not losing the thing that matters most to men.

[Anonymous]

I don't mind being tested. I'd actually be happy to prove I'm loyal. Of course I'd do the same thing only if she did it first. But still tho, even if im the one who started that, I think anyone can just use that as an excuse to break up with anyone because "He/She don't trust be" drama.

[Radio4men]

They’re all made for click baits and click baits only. Only kids believe in them. Women aren’t obvious they’re subtle creatures.

[Asker]

You're wrong about this one man. This isn't hooman. These tests are elaborate for a reason. And it's not uncommon that you see hesitation on the girls faces majority of the times. It's definitely real. Body language confirms too.

[Radio4men]

Dude if you’re a guy you have no idea WTF you’re talking about. Women aren’t men they don’t that Obvious they’re Very subtle. All those videos are fake made for kids like you.

[Asker]

Daddy chill

[Radio4men]

I’m relaxed. Don’t try to kill my drive. You be a SIMP and a gutless Soyboy but I’m not you.

[Asker]

[hellohruu]

It’sa sign there’s no trust and respect in relationship so if that’s what guys do to them then they better split

[Billlewis]

I honestly love it when a beautiful woman uses me solely for her own selfish pleasure, and I'm hoping to be used as an obedient online pay pig again soon.