Do you believe she still wanted to go out at that point?

[Anonymous]

There was a girl who liked me for a long time. We got closer and we kissed few times. All the time her friends kept telling me she likes me. I asked her out and she said yes. We couldnt find a day when both of us were free. So it took few week before we finally went. Things were fine and then the weekend before we went it started feeling off. We were at the friends party. She was there and her friends too. She was all time with one of her female friend from school. I was with her friends who kept telling me she likes me. I asked them where she is and they started saying things like that maybe i should let her go, that she is comlicated and that they are confused of her. I asked them whats going on but they didn't tell me. When i asked her if she really wants to go out she said yes. Three daays later we went out. But then when i met her on the weekend it was obvious she is avoiding me. No talk, and it just all felt so off. Then when i asked her few weeks later whats up she ended things. Do you think she made her mind beforw that date?

[_Maya_]

It's probably something you dont even realize and she had second thoughts. She wouldn't have told her friends she liked you for no reason. We don't typically do that. Now the thing might be that something came up in life. Maybe it was a family thing. Maybe it was something with friends. Maybe, maybe, maybe. I can keep listing possibilities but you get the picture. My point is that it may not have been about you but something else made her decide it wasn't the right time to get involved in a relationship or date. That happens. We can only control life to a degree. I would say just leave the ball in her court and certainly don't wait for her if you were to meet someone that you click with. She had her chance.

[gorydetails]

Could have been anything. It's not worth stressing over. Maybe she was on the fence and was going out just to see where her feelings were.