Do guys not ask me out because I don’t put effort to my looks? Should I start trying? Any tips please?

[Trashii]

Compared to women who dress in makeup and try to look a certain way, I look dusty!

Dam

Yesterday I watched these videos of this woman saying women shoild always look nice and she looked really put together and expensive.

I wanted to try but quickly started feeling like it would be wrong to try to do that and dishonest. Now today I saw myself in the mirror omggg why do any guys ever tal to me I look dusty

It’s not that I look like I don’t shower or something weird like that. It’s just that I wear comfy clothes instead of ones that would show my figure or make me look more pout together. And I never use makeup but compared to how that woman looked, I look a mess because yo can today see the difference between a woman in even minimal makeup versus none at all. You just can. It really makes a diffwrence. Before you compare your self to a made up woman, you never realize how dusty you look.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

"... it would be wrong to try to do that and dishonest." Being the best version of yourself is not being dishonest at all babes. 💓

Yeah most people treat other people on how the way they look, or how successful they are. But also, I know people who just shined because of their character. I know many simple women who got married first, than those high maintenance ones.

My suggestion is, be the best version of yourself.. but find that person who will love you inside and out. (I know you will!) You don't have to change your entire self for anyone. Someone will accept you for who you are. Especially, if you have a good heart.

[Jessikaah91]

Don't think of it as focusing on your looks for men, think of it as making yourself feel beautiful. Even if you put some light make up, you don't wanna put loads of it where you look like a clown, foundation that matches your skin tone, concealer to help cover up any marks you may have on your face, some eyeliner, masarcca and even some eye shadow and maybe some lipstick but again light don't over do it. Can also go buy new clothes and get your hair done too. Not only will you feel and look good and guys probably think so too you'll have so much confidence in yourself. Good luck!

[jahaims]

If you are healthy with good hygiene then dressing different and using makeup will attract the wrong people. If a man only wants you all done up then it isn't worth it.

[Trashii]

Why is that?

[Anonymous]

Yes of course focus on your looks.