My lesbian friend is making moves on me?

[Anonymous]

Last night me and my friend was sitting on the porch having a drink together. As we are drinking laughing and telling jokes. She moved closer to me and started to kiss me and then put her hands down my pants. I got up to use the bathroom to diffuse the situation. She is a lesbian. But I'm not into girls like that. What should I do

[hahahmm]

Well, if a guy did it to you wouldn't you call it sexual assault and call the cops? Why is it so difficult to hold a woman accountable the same way you would a man?

You should have slapped her so hard that hair style changed. In the old days women knew how to slap people who touch them without permission... but seems like the more women claim to be "equal" the more passive they get. Almost like women used to be stronger the less they claimed to be strong.

I would absolutely tell her straight up that she was out of line & I'm offended. As a guy I would punch another dude out if he did half of what you described. People with boundaries tend to get more respect than people who just passively go with the flow.

From your friend's POV you are still potentially open to something.

How can you even trust her to be within 4 feet of you now?

[Serkee]

Do you have any idea how ridiculous that sounds? She just said she's not into girls like that. She's not lesbian. That's just like telling a guy to "try it out and see if you like it" after he said he's uncomfortable because his gay friend, knowing he's not gay, kissed him and put his hand on his crotch. She didn't like it, and clearly said so.

[Serkee]

Whoops, I meant to reply to @msc545

[msc545]

I think it was good advice.

[pianogirlmeow]

That was sexual assault ! Tell her your boundaries and she should respect it.

[meepmeeperton]

That can definitely be considered sexual assault, although it seems you view it as a more innocent “making a move.”

If you don’t want that to happen again be firm that you aren’t interested or avoid hanging out with her. Probably avoid drinking around her too.

[RavVid]

What would you do if a guy suddenly shoved his hand down your pants and fingered? Probably call the cops and have him charged with sexual assault to a chorus of go girl.

It is probably more offensive to you that she did this because it is disrespecting your sense of your own sexuality as well as violating your body.

Call the cops and make a report.

[Anonymous]

If a guy did that to me, I would have stopped him before his hand got in my pants. Otherwise, I would have punched him in the throat, kicked hi in the nuts, told him to get the fuck out and never his face again.

Why didn't you stop her before she got her hand in your pants?

[Finchie40]

Tell her the truth that you aren’t into girls’ and if she tries to pull that shit again, your friendship is over

[slatyb]

Say "I'm sorry [name]. I like you but I'm not sexually attracted to women." Or try it, you might like it.

[worldscolide]

Don't do the female thing and dance around the issue. Be straight forward and tell her the truth, but do it respectfully.

[dustybiker2]

Exactly

[loveslongnails]

Tell her you're not into women and please, don't do that again. You needed to ask this on GAG? Really?

[DrPepper12]

Tell her to stay in her lane. Itll just get worse if you don't

[Iron_Man]

She broke the code cut it off 100% get out of there

[msc545]

Try it out and see if you like it. You may be very surprised at this. There is no such thing as having too many people to have a good time with.

[Anonymous]

That’s so sexy.. on her part. You ruined the vibe. Why didn’t you just let her pleasure you? Nothing bad will happen, but it will feel really nice 😊

[Serkee]

Now swap the lesbian's gender. See how wrong that sounds?

[Opinion Owner]

@Serkee Why would I swap the lesbian’s gender? She IS a female lesbian.
See how stupid your comment sounds?

[Serkee]

To see how clearly creepy it would be to say what you said if it were a dude. It's just as creepy if it's a woman.

[Opinion Owner]

@Serkee Again, it’s not a dude.
And no, it’s not “just as creepy if it’s a woman”. If it were, you would not have asked me to swap the lesbian’s gender in the first place.

[Serkee]

It is just as creepy, and I asked you to swap the gender to put it into a different perspective. It's a double standard.

[Opinion Owner]

@Serkee No, it’s not just as creepy. Your personal opinion is just that - your personal opinion. No one else cares about it.
Yes, you had to put it into a “different perspective” by completely changing someone’s gender because your argument doesn’t fit the *actual* perspective that is reality.

[Serkee]

If you can't see the double standard in that you're being willfully blind.

[Opinion Owner]

@Serkee I’m not the one who had to swap a vagina for a penis to try and make his argument work 😆

[Serkee]

You can't show a double standard without without an example of someone else in the same situation. Gender doesn't matter here at all.

[Opinion Owner]

@Serkee There isn’t a double standard, which is why to demonstrate your “example” you needed to contrive a situation that didn’t exist.
Lol. Of course gender matters, you can’t be a lesbian with a penis. Just a minor technicality.
And again, you keep spreading your opinion around as if anyone is supposed to care. Let me tell you plainly: I do not care about you or your opinion.

[Serkee]

Do you not have object permanence? Do you not know what examples are for?

[Opinion Owner]

@Serkee Again, no one cares about your opinion. You’re just talking to yourself. If you’re that lonely, try joining a club. Or get a job, instead of typing drivel, you boring fuck.

[nawtee_me]

Let her do you, you don’t have to do her in return….

[Serkee]

Now swap the her friend's gender. See how wrong that sounds? That's rapey as fuck.

[AviatorTom]

Calmly tell her that you're not into girls.

[noohair]

Boundries need to be set.

[RedInnocent69]

Try it, try it , and you may!

[LunarEclipse433]

Try it you might like it

[dustybiker2]

You do have a point

[dustybiker2]

@hahahmm this was supposed to be a reply to you

[hahahmm]

👍 thanks

[dustybiker2]

It's okay to respect yourself. Don't like something tell people to stop. If her moving closer made you uncomfy then would have been the time to speak up.

[Anonymous]

That is more than just making a move on you.

[pethouse]

Hot.