My friend told the girl i like that i have a crush on her a few days ago. She told him that she suspected it because i always get nervous around her. She doesn't know that i know that my friend told her.
today what happened is that i was eating lunch and she asked me why i get nervous. Why would she ask me that if she knows the answer already?
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She was waiting for the right answer: cause you are beautiful.
I feel like saying that to her would be too much lol. In the sense that its way too early to say that.
I would say that in a non so serious manner.
Well what did she say after you told her?
I didn’t tell her why, i said “ i dont know” she then said “You don’t know? do you feel nervous around girls? Have you never talked to them? don’t you have a girlfriend?” And i said no.
Okay, well she's really curious. But be careful with this girl. For some reason she seems very dominant. She wants you to confess for some reason. Be very careful with her
Wdym to be careful with her? And how can you tell she is dominant? She is very confident irl from what i have seen.
Because to me if someone liked you back they would tell you. And if she's so confident she would tell you. Not try to be belittle you or make you feel small. Why is she trying to force you to tell her when she already knows? Do you see?
Oh i see. Hmm I don't know tbh. Maybe she is interested because she asked me if i have girlfriend?
Maybe.
But you won't know if you're on gag now will you
You’re right. Our circle is going to the club tomorrow I’ll tell you how it goes.
K good luck
Thanks for the good luck.
So there is some interesting stuff that happened.
We were at the club (around 25 people) and we were playing “Never Have I Ever”. She said “never have i ever had a crush on a coworker in this room” and then she looked at me. I didn't say anything. A bit later she said in front of every “(my name), you can open up now, i have high expectations from you”.
Then an hour later while everyone was dancing she told me to come outside for a bit. Some guy was bothering her other friend and she told me they need help. I just called security and they handled it. Then her and her girl friend were talking and i was standing a bit away from them.
She grabbed my upper arm and pulled me towards her and the wall behind us. She was a bit to the left of me and we were really close, our torsos were almost touching. She then let go off my arm and put her other hand on my belly without saying anything and just looked at me. I got really nervous and leaned away, she noticed the gap and put her hand again on my tummy. I was looking down on the floor during that time.
Why did she do that?
she's toying with you.
Ask her what her issue is... maybe confront her because if we were friends I would have called her out on how she's treating you. What exactly is she trying to prove here?
She isn't my friend. I dont even know her well tbh. Just a familiar face. Why would she toy with me?
she's a bitch
Oh..
So she isn't interested?
It doesn't seem like it. Lol
she's teasing you but you should call her out. I don't know I dont like her she's too immature
Hmm… lets see if she does anything the next few days from now.
Call her out if she keeps being dumb
So today i was eating lunch alone and she joined me. She said hi and asked me how i am. But this time she talked to me normally. Stuff like where i graduated from, what i want to do in the future, where i live, hobbies, etc. she seemed normal to me today.
But I’m not sure what i should do.
Me either. If you like her ask her to hang out. If not... tell her to leave you tf alone lol
I like her and i would love to ask her to hang out but I’m scared of rejection. I want signs from her that she likes me too.
You gotta do what you gotta do. To me it seems she could very much like you back but holding up a front. She won't budge. doesn't seem like she will
But she's immature...
She stinks to me
My friends told me she is likely interested because she never touched anyone of them like that, and told me she doesn't do that even in a friendly way.
Ok see what i can do
You should totally make her come out and say it then... that she likes you lol
We just talk normally but i haven't asked her what she thinks about me and i haven't told her that i like her (directly)
Well I guess the later you do things... the later you'll find out. But no rush. Just as long as she's not treating you like crap