Do you think it's messed up that girls judge guys on things we can't change but guys judge women based on stuff they can?

[massb]

Like guys will say they want a skinny girl or a girl that doesn't wear make up. That's kind and easy going stuff like that. But girls will say they want a guy that's 6'3 , 8 inch dick and stuff like that. Things we can't control , why is that?

[CrazyGirl2]

Wait, I’ve seen logical, and cognitive fallacies in questions before, but your question is one of the 7 formal cognitive fallacies, it’s a “hasty generalization”. You are assuming your thesis that men only want women to change things we can, while women only want men to change things you cannot, that is not correct!

First, men have certain standards for long term relationships (LTR), as they should. If you prefer black women, then that’s what you prefer. If you prefer white women, then likewise, that’s what you prefer. Nobody has a right to judge you if you only date women of a specific race, who cares? But no woman can become another race! Yet you say men only judge women on things we can change? What if you like thick women, or “thin-thick” women? I have a GREAT ass, for white guys, but I’ve had more than one black male friend joke that “gurl, you fine as hell, but you ain't got no ass, I need some ass on my woman!”. So how do I change that? Surgery? I know men who love big breasted women, but they HATE “fake titties”. How would a small breasted woman change that?

Before I was in a LTR here at college, I dated a lot of guys, and I’ve had some awful dates! Guys who I liked, but they wouldn't date a woman who didn't like “indy-rock” whatever that is, another guy who I went on one date with, would not date a woman unless she was a Trump-loving conservative! I dated a guy once who literally ended the date because I was studying to be a psychologist, and he despised all psychologists, and said he would never date a psychologist! How would I change that?

Let’s be honest here, if you found a lamp and rubbed it, and a genie popped out, offering you three wishes. You list of all the qualities of what you believe is the perfect woman. genie snaps his fingers and suddenly the door opens and in walks a woman with literally every single quality you love. She has the perfect face for you, the perfect body, the perfect body proportions. Everything is perfect… Except for the fact that she's 3 foot tall. You have two more wishes, would you wish that she was taller? Because I promise you SHE cannot change her height! OK, exact same example but this time she walks in and she's 7'6” tall… again, are you really telling me you would want a 7'6" tall woman, or would you want the genie to change her height, which is something SHE cannot do? There are men who want lots of things from women that we cannot change. And yes, some women want some ridiculous things that men cannot change. Especially if you want to date the kind of woman who shows up on dating shows like Whatever and Fresh & Fit! Because, frankly that is the only place I’ve ever seen any woman say she wants a guy with a certain size dick! (and by the way the size THEY say, is only 6” not 8” which 8” would hurt like hell to me! ).

One of my friends has what’s called an “ectomorphic body type”, meaning that she is skinny and tall. She’s about 5’ 11” and weighs 125lbs, and there is NOTHING she can do to gain weight! (I hate her for that!) She can eat whatever she wants and she won’t gain a pound. but despite her being a model, there are a LOT of guys who will not date a skinny woman with small breasts, and no ass! She cannot change that. Do NOT say she can get implants, because NOBODY should need to get surgery to get a man’s (or a woman’s) attention! Besides, she can't change her weight, or her height, which is most guy’s issue with her!

There are PLENTY of women you would not date because there is something about them that you do not like physically! I’m not talking about “hooking up” for a night, I’m talking a relationship! This is so much projection going on here, that you could get a job in a movie theater! You need to stop watching dating shows like Whatever and Fresh and Fit, as well as all the other shows like that. if that's the kind of woman you want, a beautiful only fans girl, then yes, she's probably gonna expect six figures, 6 inches, and 6 feet tall. the rest of us however… We just want decent guy with extensive humor who will treat as well and not cheat on us!

Laura 🤗 🥰

[DishLady]

That's not true... Many times there are things a girl asks a guy to change that are adjustable, but the guy is stubborn. Meanwhile, many girls will go through GREAT LENGTHS to change even fundamental core values just to be with their guy.

in my opinion, as long as a person (guy or girl) is not being asked to (1) change a core value or characteristic (something that essentially makes them who they are) or (2) change more than 10% from the way they naturally are, then there shouldn't be any issue with making a minor adjustment in the name of creating a lasting relationship. If a person is expected to change too much (either from their core or the %), it can lead to feelings of resentment and unhappiness.

Essentially, when you pick someone, don't expect to change them. You need to love them as they are.

[massb]

But again women choose that guy. Women choose thier guys for the most part. But yes the guy should change to if he loves her. But that wasn't the statement I made.

[DishLady]

I think folks choose each other. It's not always the one gender choosing or changing... Both should be accepted as they are and perhaps some minor adjustments made on both sides to facilitate being together if the intention is a committed and lasting relationship.

Ok, please lmk what you were aiming at, then bc I might have missed your actual question.

[massb]

I was saying when choosing someone why do women go for a guy that 6'3 or over. But those same girls will get mad if they do the same to the regarding weight which is something you can change. So why do women make fun of men for things they can't change

[DishLady]

Ah! Got you. See, I've never gone for a guy for those sorts of reasons, so it's why I missed it, lol.

If a girl is SO materialistic and shallow that those are the traits she's picking on then she's not worth your time or effort -- she wouldn't be worth any guy's time or effort, frankly. A real woman -- a good woman -- just wants a good man.

Actually, weight is something that's hard for some folks to change for different reasons, so perhaps don't think of it as TOO changeable.

I'm going to think a little more about the "making fun" part because off the top of my head no one I spend time with would do that, ever. Maybe change the circle of women you're around? None of my female friends does that.

[massb]

I don't have any female friends. I use to until I saw how they were using me. My friends say this to me. I watch videos on what women say they want. And makes sense you seem reasonable

[DishLady]

It’s sad to feel used. (Both guys and gals struggle with this.) Yeah, I try to maintain a reasonable stance — middle ground, no extremes.

[massb]

I agree

[MrGSpotHer]

Well yes definitely they always try and say I can sleep if I try different things usually meds but they don't have any idea about it, how much I've actually tried and I can't stop going off into the forests or in nature I need it to relax and maybe sleep

[LiamJHayden]

People have whatever standards they have and complaining about them won't make a difference.

[massb]

Yes, that's true, and that's all I was getting at, but then these women started getting angry

[avery58]

It's not like most guys don't prefer girls women shorter and sometimes younger than them right?

It's all preferences, what others prefer shouldn't bother you. Being your partner's preference is all that matters.

Besides, women do like taller men but it's not like most of us refuse to date anyone who isn't 6'. Not all preferences are as important as you think.

[avery58]

They should really let us edit our opinions, I hate leaving a mistake

[massb]

I agree , but sometimes women don't realize that until later in life.

[Username678]

Oh look, double standards again :)

Women cannot change whether they look beautiful or not.

A man can change his attitude and instead of blaming women for preferring taller men he could go to the gym and build the best version of himself.

If a man leaves a woman at the age of 40 for another woman she cannot change anything. She can't magically become young again.

A man on the other hand will be considered a silver fox.

So no, I can't see any unfairness here. That being said, you've got no idea on how much work women put into looking good (I know because I am one).

[bobby_bush_eater]

Women literally do change to try and become beautiful, it's a multi billion dollar industry, 2 of them actually. Makeup and cosmetic surgery, look at any model or influencer and most of them are not natural.

There is undoubtedly double standards for both sides that differ in age, a curve so to speak where women start high and gradually move lower where young men do the opposite (extremely generalized) but your first statement is entirely untrue.

[Anonymous]

For the last time, men and women aren’t equal. You can have all of those standards but the woman like that won’t settle for a man that looks like you. You want a woman with a flat stomach, no makeup and skinny and so do the 6’3” 8” dick dudes.
Dudes like you who are constantly comparing themselves to women are a cancer to society.

[kylee2437]

I think the bigger issue is men that act like they don’t judge women over stuff they can’t control.

[massb]

Post has nothing to do with me. I'm 6'1 and how am I comparing myself to girls? All I'm saying is girls judge guys and stuff they can't change geez

[Opinion Owner]

@massb Dating is optional. Therefore, you are more than welcome to pick whatever standard you want in a man or woman. If you want a woman with green eyes, you can go find that. If I want a man that’s over 6’2” I can go find that too. So what.

[Opinion Owner]

@kylee2437 Indeed.

[massb]

Lol okay then do that I'm not stopping you

[Nikki1989]

That is 100% false. Men judge women on what they can't change all the damn time.

[massb]

Like what?

[dustybiker2]

Not really comparable. The girls options given here are changeable. The mens options are choosable.

[massb]

What do you mean? A guy can't change his height

[dustybiker2]

They don't have to date a certain height. Just don't even approach them. That isn't judging its choosing.

[massb]

Most women are like that though

[dustybiker2]

That's okay though. Preferences are fine. Judging men/woman or hurting them, putting them down is not okay. You can choose to not date types without hurting others.

[massb]

I get that but women put me down that they aren't into all the time. There was one girl who tried to be a man for 18 months then ends up killing herself years later because the phycological impact was to much to handle

[kylee2437]

That’s a false statement. Men judge women on body count, which is something a woman can’t change.

[massb]

She actually can she has the power to sleep with who ever she wants. Everyone starts with 0 she decided to fuck all those people nobody forced her to. Also if you sleep around then your pair a bonding will be off

[massb]

Once again that something she controls

[kylee2437]

@massb more false statements. Men care about that stuff because they hold internal insecurities with their own selves

[massb]

Whats false about what I said?

[kylee2437]

You claimed bonding would be off when bonding doesn’t go off of someone’s past, it goes off what two people are willing to bring to the table in the current moment.

[massb]

I never said they didn't care and look it up. The more people you sleep with the harder it is to commit to one person. You have all those guys DNA in you and then you'll start comparing your partner to the other men

[kylee2437]

@massb a persons past does not define what a person wants after all that stuff. And it’s a prime example of men dwelling on something a woman can’t change about herself, so your original statement that men don’t judge on that stuff is false.

[massb]

I said pair bonding which means intimatacy and so women don't choose who they sleep with?

[kylee2437]

And the fact that you can’t even admit multiple points of views to this subject goes to show that men do indeed judge on that subject

[kylee2437]

You said men don’t judge people based on stuff they can’t change, and that’s false. You can’t say stuff like this when you are one of those guys that do judge women for body count.

[massb]

I literally said guys do judge women based on that. But again you choose who you sleep with. Everyone is born a virgin

[massb]

That is literally something you have control over. Guys don't have control over height

[kylee2437]

Your original question says men don’t do that, and I just said that statement is false.

[kylee2437]

No you don’t have control over your own past, and I’d prefer to not be with a guy that fixates on my personal past, just like I’m sure a guy would be upset if I brought up who he slept with everyday

[massb]

Learn to read start with that. I say that women judge men on thing we can't CHANGE, like hieght. Body count is something you literally can. You decide who you sleep with. We're you forced to have sex with those men or was it a choice. It's because women can get sex so easy it's not something that's earned

[massb]

Let's try this. If I murder someone , can I say don't judge me, km not a murderer anymore? Or did I kill someone. I choose to kill that person. Like you choose who you slept with. That's in your control

[kylee2437]

@massb you are the one that lacks common sense. No you can’t change body count, and men DO judge on past numbers. You just don’t want to admit a common sense thing because you can’t admit that men and women judge each other for different things

[kylee2437]

@massb comparing sexual activities to killing someone is a wild gesture

[massb]

Not comparing it but I'm saying you choose to do both things it's literally a choice. Which you have control over. You choose who you sleep with men don't control thier height. Don't you understand that

[kylee2437]

@massb a woman has a choice in the moment, but does not have a choice to take back what was done with and in her past. Just like a man that judges a woman for her past is literally doing the same thing a woman does when she judges a man for height whether you like it or not.

[massb]

Do I have a choice to be taller? It's not the same thing. If your choosing to do something it can't be the same as something you literally have no control over. Whether you did it in the past or not you still did it.

[kylee2437]

@massb it is the same thing. It’s two things that people can’t change. Just because one could never be changed, doesn’t make it a more valuable argument. If you feel like men can have a preference when choosing a woman with body type, then I’m not quite sure why you are offended by women that have a height preference.

[massb]

If you got beat up or robbed I wouldn't say that a choice that's just something that happened to you , that's not your fault. But if your choosing to do something then take responsibility for it. Women decline men for shit that have no control over.

[kylee2437]

@massb the fact that you are comparing getting robbed or beat up to sexual activities is once again insane to say the least.

[massb]

Once again you can lose weight something you can change. I'm not offended I'm 6'1 I'm just saying.

[kylee2437]

@massb so you feel like women should lose weight for the sake of dating you? What makes you so special?

[massb]

I'm trying to prove to you that everything is decision and thier are consequences for that. You literally comparing a decision to something that someone literally has no chance changing

[kylee2437]

@massb no you are simply proving that men do judge on stuff women can’t change about themselves, meanwhile claiming they don’t. Ridiculous antics of yours

[massb]

I'm into bigger girls but you see these are things you can change.

[kylee2437]

@massb but what makes you or any guy so special that a big woman should change for you without even proving you are a person she should be with

[massb]

Can you choose not to sleep around? Yes
Can you work out and lose weight? Yes
Can you be caring and loving? Yes
Things you have control over for the last time. Idc that it's in the past you have say in who you fuck and what food you eat. Women sleeping around means you don't respect yourself.
Would you be with a guy that's 5 ft 3 and 400 pounds? That has no job and can't drive with a small dick?

[kylee2437]

@massb and a woman having a height preference does not come from a place of entitlement, a man feeling like a woman should lose weight for the sake of him is 100% entitlement

[kylee2437]

@massb no I wouldn’t be with a guy like that because that’s not my preference and I have a right to have preferences. You don’t have a right to feel like a woman should lose weight for you.

[massb]

How is that entitlement cuz he wants her to be healthy? And how is hers not

[kylee2437]

@massb because it’s not a place of him wanting her to be healthy, it’s because he feels insecure with the way she looks.

[massb]

That's a preference to so women's preferences are okay even though you have no control over that but men's aren't that you have complete control over

[kylee2437]

@massb a preference based off of self righteousness and entitlement is problematic, which is why I don’t date men that feel like body count is more important than anything else in a relationship

[massb]

How is hieght not problematic? If I don't have a job and don't drive or I'm fat that's my fault and I can change that. If im short I literally can't do anything about that. Men's preferences women have control over. Some women are lazy and don't want to change.

[massb]

I don't know what your arguing about

[kylee2437]

@massb women don’t have to change for the sake of you when it comes to their appearance. It sounds like you have severe control issues and think you are on some kind of superior basis where you think a woman should hold herself to your standards before you make the move and simply leave her because she isn’t your type.

[kylee2437]

A woman simply saying “I won’t talk to guys that are less than 6 ft” is way less controlling than a man saying “I won’t date her if she doesn’t lose weight for me”

[massb]

Women say I want a guy that makes 100, 000 a year , a house , a car. He has to be 6ft in shape , handsome , funny and confident. And all men ask for he is not to be a hoe and we have the unrealistic standard?

[massb]

Loool whatever you say. Your literally trolling and if your not your a victim

[kylee2437]

@massb you are the one that said women have the most options, we can do whatever we want. The difference is, is you men will start dating someone you were never interested in from the beginning and ridicule her because she still isn’t the woman you want her to be (based on stuff she has no control over, and stuff she shouldn’t be controlled with)

[kylee2437]

I’m not a victim sweet cheeks, I have a boyfriend and I’m quite frankly happy he isn’t like you at all.

[massb]

How tall is he , how much does he make? You have standards for him don't you? So is it okay if you fucked all his friends and everyone he knew?

[kylee2437]

He’s 5’7 and makes $75,000 maybe? And why wouldn’t I have standards for someone I’m dating? That’s insane

[massb]

I mean it looks like men force you to fuck them and you have no say so I'm sorry you have no control over who you sleep with

[kylee2437]

And fucked all of his friends? What kind of drugs are you on? I wouldn’t even argue with him in front of his friends yesterday.

[massb]

Because you say men can't and you can.

[kylee2437]

I never said men forced me to fuck them, I think judging someone on self righteous bullshit doesn’t make for a long lasting relationship

[massb]

I'm saying if you did would he be okay with that?

[kylee2437]

Why would he be okay with that? That’s not apart of my past.

[massb]

Why wouldn't he be? If you did it's a part of your past

[kylee2437]

I didn’t fuck his friends so I’m pretty confused with your statements and odd comparisons. You have compared out of pocket bs to just normal sex. Weird flex

[massb]

Fine you win. Women have no control or say in who they fuck. They should never face any repercussions for anything they do and should never be held accountable for anything. Men should lower there standards and accept any women no matter how they come or act. I'm literally trying to say that you say who you fucked in the past doesn't mater and he should accept it even if you fucked over 100 men. So I'm saying should he be okay with it if he or you never knew that you messed around with someone he knew. But from a long time ago.

[kylee2437]

@massb you have issues if you feel like a woman should hold repercussions on shit you weren’t even in her life for. This is why I won’t date men like you. You have an entitlement towards women that you can’t even attract on your own being.

[kylee2437]

@massb I guarantee you don’t tell bigger women on the first date that they should lose some weight in order to get into their pants. I know for a fact.

[massb]

There's a difference between if she was In relationships and had sex with her exes or if she was just fucking guys all over the places then wants to settle down with him. But I'm saying it's cool women can do no wrong your right I'm wrong. Women should have whatever preferences they want and men should just take whatever a women does and accept her

[massb]

I like bigger women so no I don't say that. And I was saying general speaking

[kylee2437]

@massb no one said you had to date people you aren’t attracted to, just move along and stop ridiculing women for shit that you personally aren’t attracted to. Move around

[massb]

But if women want to judge guys based on height something we can't control they should be able to base women based on weight or body count thing that have power over

[kylee2437]

@massb and another thing, is women do not ridicule men for being short they simply say things like “I won’t date a guy that isn’t 6 ft” they won’t go up to a guy that’s 5’8 , go on dates with him and say things like “I would date you if you were just a little taller”

[kylee2437]

@massb the difference is , is one comes from preference based on type , the other comes from preference based on self righteousness

[massb]

I literally just said that men should have no standards and just date women however thrn come and women should only have standards and guys need to jump through hoops

[kylee2437]

@massb I never said men can’t have standards, I simply said that men need to learn to move around when someone doesn’t fit their standards

[massb]

How are they both not based on type?

[kylee2437]

@massb they are, which goes back to my point of men and women judge each other for things they can’t control

[massb]

Are you born a Virgin or not?

[kylee2437]

@massb who cares? That’s not the point. Your point makes absolutely no sense quite honestly

[massb]

It literally does , from that point you literally choose who you sleep with. Your acting like women automatically have like hundreds of guys they fucked and have no choice. Everything in life you have a choice. But women don't like taking responsibility which yous showing. If I do something I have to take responsibility for it.

[massb]

Look if you say women can't change and had no choice in sleeping around then that's your perogative.

[kylee2437]

@massb women don’t have the choice to take back who they have slept with. If you don’t like a woman for herself even after she has told you about who she has slept with, then that’s a you issue not a her issue.

[kylee2437]

@massb if I’m 26 years old and slept around at 19 and a man is judging me for my 19 year old self, that’s his issue, not mine.

[massb]

Look women can do what they want and have standards. Men just have to take whatever. No matter what you did in the past you should never be judged by it. Women do no wrong and men need to change

[kylee2437]

@massb I never said women do no wrong, I just personally think if a man is judging me on part of my life he wasn’t in, then he’s the problem and I have no interest in dating him. It works out quite well for him that I’m not stuck on the idea of dating him in the first place

[massb]

So you never want to be judged ever for anything makes sense

[massb]

Men get judged all the time for everything but you get judged once or twice for things you have power over and get mad over it smh

[kylee2437]

@massb no what I am saying is, is I don’t need a man that judges me on a point of time that I got over and is my life to get over. I don’t need a man that thinks it’s his job to rehash parts of my life that he wasn’t in.

[massb]

So if a man was part of a gang back in the day but changed he shouldn't be judged for it.

[kylee2437]

@massb you are showing you have severe control issues though. I am sitting here saying that I’m not attracted to men that judge me for things that are none of their concern and you have a problem with that , when it shouldn’t be a problem to a guy that may not even be attracted to me

[kylee2437]

@massb I know someone that was in a gang and is now a cop. Do you think the system should judge him for that change?

[massb]

Everyone is entitled to do what they want but if I don't want to date a whore that should be okay. That's not a big thing to ask

[massb]

They probably did at first but gave him a chance afterwards

[kylee2437]

@massb see but that’s the issue. You decided to call her a whore instead of just simply saying “this isn’t my type” not one single woman would call a short man a loser because he’s short

[kylee2437]

@massb that’s not how being a cop works.

[massb]

If you get arrested for something police will forever bring it up if anything was to happen even if your not a part of it that's how it goes. That's why criminal records are there. But you think you can tell them it's the past that's not me anymore.. they will say you still did it and have to face the consequences

[massb]

That's a lie wtf lol woman literally do that all the time

[massb]

You have to do a background check before getting in

[kylee2437]

@massb you need to touch grass. Out of touch of reality

[massb]

Your a woman so you literally have no idea what men go through. You see through the lens of a woman who has no struggle in dating so it's easy for you. A woman literally tried living as a man for 18 months as a expirement and she took her life a few years later because it destroyed her phycology

[kylee2437]

@massb speak for yourself , you call women whores based on their past you know nothing about besides a number. Hilarious that men want women to “understand” but put no big thought into being an understanding person.

[massb]

I ment to say a slut. A slut is a woman who sleeps around. That's literally the definition. Woman literally judge men based on how tall they are ans how much money they make wtf are you talking about.

[kylee2437]

@massb more bs on why it’s important you don’t sit on electronics all day, and go touch grass.

[kylee2437]

You are a judgmental person trying to insinuate women should care about your feelings. And maybe if you were less of a judgmental person, people would actually care.

[massb]

Funny how you ignored my comment about a woman doing the experiment being a man for 18 months then killing herself years later because it was to much.
https://youtu.be/pXHYV_H7owI?si=2ABa7EeuZEB_MmxQ

[massb]

Watch that and then maybe you'll understand

[kylee2437]

@massb I didn’t ignore it, I simply don’t care. There’s a reason why you felt the need to bring this up when simply you are a person that wants people to care when you are a person that lacks understanding of others

[massb]

I literally don't I'm active and work all the time.

[kylee2437]

@massb when you think being lazy is the only root cause to being fat, you are indeed a person that lacks understanding of others.

[massb]

I'm pretty easy going and this post literally wasn't about me. It's what I see day to day and on videos and struggles my friends and guys go through in general. What women say they want. It's not based of what I feel it's based off what most people say that want

[massb]

I was 380 pounds years ago and I lost 130 pounds so yea it literally does. I was eating like shit and not working out regularly. Once I changed I lost Weight

[kylee2437]

Again if most people wanted what you listed, then no man under the height of 6 ft would be dating. I would assume your friends have troubles dating because they have a similar mind to yours

[kylee2437]

@massb in order to get to 380 lbs, you have to have some mental issues , so no it’s not just laziness. The one mentally healthy person is getting to almost 400 lbs.

[kylee2437]

Not one mentally*

[massb]

If a woman has a preference of dating a guy that 6ft and above. And guys are 5'5 -5'9 then say they like them but are to short for them. But would be with them if they were taller. How does that have to do with them but not her preference?

[massb]

So your saying all fat people have mental issues now? I don't I literally eat one thing and gain like 10 pounds. Gaining weight is very easy

[kylee2437]

No what I am saying is 400 lbs is quite excessive to just say laziness was the only factor to why you got that big.

[massb]

It was , mostly pop made me gain the weight tbh. I drank a lot of pop and didn't eat much but it wasn't healthy food. Mostly take out once a day so again it doesn't take much to gain weight

[massb]

Plus I wasn't working out on top of that so yea it was laziness

[kylee2437]

Most people shouldn’t be over 200 lbs, so I don’t agree that laziness was the only factor. I would even say skinniness is the same thing. My boyfriend is on the skinny side and yes there’s mental issues attached to why he is skinny the way he is

[massb]

The last time I was 180 I was in high school but I have lots of muscle so I'm 250 now. I literally can never get that small my body just won't

[massb]

Just like some of my friends they can't gain weight

[kylee2437]

@massb there’s exceptions with muscle obviously but averagely if someone is telling me they weigh 380 lbs, there’s bigger issues there than laziness

[massb]

Okay if you say so

[kylee2437]

@massb and that’s coming from my profession I study. If I told a client they are simply lazy for being 400 lbs, I would be instantly fired.

[massb]

That is part of the reason though. Yes there can be another reason but it also comes down to lazziness

[kylee2437]

@massb laziness is not someone that is morbidly obese. Laziness is someone that puts on 20-40 lbs in almost a year because they aren’t doing what they usually do.

[massb]

Okay

[noohair]

Like is not fair. When we were all walking around with are stuff hanging out, big dick guys got more women.

[Dongie]

Well I guess because the nature of a woman has shifted due to liberal feminist policy. They are could and car for numerous uno.

[Dongie]

Thank you spell check.
That's supposed to have said what I wrote.
They are COLD and CARE for numero UNO.

[massb]

Yea very true smh , then they call me the superficial ones

[Dongie]

They are plastic.

[massb]

I know I agree

[massb]

@kyle2344 doesn't understand the question smh. Maybe if you explain it to her that would help thanks

[kylee2437]

@massb I get the question , you just have entitlement issues and it’s apparent.

[massb]

If a woman wants a guy to have a job a car and whatever I'm all for that. But once you start basing guys on things we have no control over that's fucked

[massb]

You saying women have no choice in who they sleep with and men have a choice in thier hieght or dick size and calling those preferences is crazy

[kylee2437]

@massb where did I say women have no choice in who they sleep with? You aren’t that special to the point where a woman is thinking about you before you are even in her life, and she doesn’t have to. A secure woman is not going to go for the man that thinks her past is a bigger issue than what she currently brings to the table. Just like a secure man is not going to dwell on a woman that cares about a man being 6 ft, that is why there’s plenty of men under 6 ft in relationships, and getting laid.

[massb]

That's what you think. Men are virgins now more than ever and most women always want a tall guy. So it's slim to none. Where are you getting this info from.

[kylee2437]

@massb you are truly delusional if you think the dating life only consists of 6 ft men. You need to go touch grass.

[massb]

I never said that. Google is free literally 30% of men are virgins

[kylee2437]

@massb wonderful so maybe instead of judging the women that have slept around, maybe just simply go for virgin women? Leave people alone that you aren’t attracted to. Simple.

[massb]

Can you read the men are virgins not the women. No women are virgins just the men

[kylee2437]

@massb go touch grass

[NathanDavis]

never really heard of it