A girl sent me photos of her Spotify playlist and I think it conveys a message?

[Anonymous]

I’ve met this girl for a while now, and we used to FaceTime everyday. One day she sends me her Spotify playlist and I think she wants to convey a message through the playlist. Some songs are about love but a lot of the songs are just normal songs. She got agitated that I don’t get the message she is trying to tell me. I keep asking her what she means but she wouldn’t tell me. What does she want and what should I do?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that is kinda weird that she sent you her playlist but won't just be straight up about what she's tryna say. Girls can be so cryptic sometimes, ya know?

My best guess would be that if there's love songs mixed in there, she's probably trying to hint that she likes you without actually saying it. Sharing personal music stuff is a way for her to open up without being super direct.

I'd say try not to overthink it too much, cuz she didn't make it that obvious. Maybe just casually mention you enjoyed a few of the love songs and see how she reacts. Don't bring up that you don't get the "message" again though, cuz she might clam up.

Play it cool for now. Keep talking to her normally and see if she hints at it more clearly later on. No need to make a big deal out of it if you also kinda like her. Let her come to you a bit instead of pressuring her to spell it out. Hope this helps man! Girls are so confusing.

[_Maya_]

Unfortunately there is no way we know what is going through her head. This site isn't a mind readers convention. If she refuses to tell you what the meaning was behind it then you can't do anything about it. If she is getting mad and still won't say anything about what she meant then she is very immature and not someone I would continue to have an interest in. I guess your only option is to let it go and see if things blow over. Try changing the subject to something else. She will eventually forget about it and move on. The only issue is the sign of immaturity she is showing. This might blow over but what is the next thing she is going to get fussy about over nothing?