Do the pictures she sends mean anything?

[cynbalistic]

Ok am going to come forward. I've know this girl for 2 years. She is 17 now. We are in this platonic relationship. I watch her go from relationship to relationships since I've know her. Of course we never hung out because she still a minor. And I have gotten attached to her. I've been receiving a lot of pictures from her. And the ones I shouldn't be getting. But her face is cut off. So no one know who she is. I have seen her from a distance. And we text a lot when she is single and we do not talk often when she is not single. More like once every 2 weeks. Keep in mind is she doing all the effort to text first. But now she is dating one of her male friends of 5 years. They have been dating sent May. But she still talks to me a little more than during her previous relationship. She don't bring up her boyfriend problems or share how much she care about him. She has done that in the past. But I didn't care for that. So she stop. Only boy problem is she talks about is her ex being abusive and her current boyfriend coming to the rescue if he is there. But I do read her tweets even though I'm not officially following her. I use to follow her. I stop because she pours out her feelings about her boyfriend. And it seens that he is the one for now. Anyway, she does have a daughter. And she likes to send me pictures of her and her daughter together or just her daughter and I get random pictures of her doing stuff with her friends. Keep in mind I don't get pictures from others females in my lifetime, haha.Not the way she sends them. It has to over a 100 up to now. I have been venting about her a lot up her. But never mention about her real age. I figure it doesn't matter all girls has the same behavior with certain men. I just trying to figure out what this all means. Am I'm just her good friend who she like to send pictures to. Am I'm a back up. But if this girl ends up marrying her current boyfriend which it is possible. Then our friendship will diminish. And she knows that. Because our relationship has been mainly text buddy. And she know that I'm want to hang out with her. And it wouldn't make sense if she gets married and we still continue to be text bubbies. It just makes it harder to get over her. I am trying not to think about her. I'm still looking, but I don't know if I would meet anyone else. I know this girl more that I have known anyone else. Anyway these pictures are so soo, I can't think of a word for it. But these pictures of her and her daughter are the type of pictures that you will sent to your family or send to their husband when he is away on deployment. So does these pictures mean anything? Or does she do it just to get attention? I mean if she loves her boyfriend that much. Obviously he is treating her right. Why does she need attention from me? Or am I'm really her back up? Just trying to understand. I never been friends with someone like her or even this young. Maybe I worry too much. Probably because I'm not getting any younger. I'm still single with no kids

[lovedcursed]

WHAT are you doing to yourself ? are you focusing with a teenage girl of 17 years old who has already had ''some '' boyfriends ,and most probably will have more and more ? this is nuts , she is using you man ! she is playing making you want her and that's it ! does she send nude pictures of herself to you ? or what kind pictures ?

[cynbalistic]

Yes, I have seen her nude. And the other of her is just random pictures. You know like pictures of her new pericing, tattoos, stuff that her and her friends do. She can sing. So sometimes she will send homemade recordings of her singing. And I get random pictures of her daughter play in the sand pit or her dress up.

[lovedcursed]

mm I really don't know , but please please be aware cause you are putting yourself in troubles , good luck <3 , best thing just be straight forward to cut it short ''do you have feelings for me ?'' and that's it

[cynbalistic]

Well of course she doesn't have feelings for me. She has a boyfriend as of now. The question is going to keep our agreement. We weren't going to hangout until she is legal. If not then I know we can't continue to communicate anymore. Having a text buddy relationship is not what I had in mind. Until then I'm just playing a long. And no one knows that we know each other except her best friend. Not even her boyfriend knows about me.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Are you really concerned about getting involved with a 17 year old who already has a kid?

[cynbalistic]

No not now. I talking about the future when she is legal. I didn't meet her in public. I met her on a dating website. She pose herself as a 18 year old. The conversation was going really smooth. And she wanted to exchange numbers. After we started texting. That's when she confess that she wasn't 18 and her daughter wasn't 3 year old. She fear I wouldn't tall to her anymore. I could have left her alone. But I enjoyed talking to her.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

No, you liked the idea of f***ing a 17 year old at the age of near 40.

[cynbalistic]

At first, but now I want more.

[neveryoumind]

nah this too f***ed up, duck out!

[cynbalistic]

Not as easy to duck out. Not just yet. I going to weigh it out to the end. Then duck out. I have to be sure. She is not married to anyone yet.