Why is a girl who barely knows me is asking how my weekend was?

[andre-48]

I've noticed her behaviour towards me has changed. She like never ever spoke to me and ignored me. But suddenly she stops what work she is doing and approaches me and starts chatting with me. What is going on?

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo dude, sounds like this girl might be feelin' you finally! Some thoughts:

- Girls can be funny like that sometimes, going hot and cold for no reason. Her vibe probably changed.

- Could be she noticed you more recently and think you're cute now that her "ignore him" phase is over lol.

- Maybe you changed up your look or something and now you're catching her eye when before you wasn't.

- Or she could've been going through her own thing at first and wasn't trying to talk to anyone, but now she open.

- Either way her asking about your weekend shows she tryna start conversing and getting to know you.

I'd say flirt back a little if you're interested too, my man! Ask her some questions, crack a joke, tease her a bit. See where it goes.

Keep playing it cool but seem engaged. She puttin in the effort now so don't blow her off either. Could lead somewhere fun 👀

Keep it chill for now and see what's up. You never know dawg!

[andre-48]

What do you mean by she might feelin me

[Oliverlogan263]

When I say she might be "feelin you," I mean she could be developing romantic feelings or a crush on you. Some signs that might indicate a girl is starting to like you as more than a friend:

- She goes out of her way to talk to you or find excuses to chat, like asking about your weekend. Girls don't usually make an effort with a guy they're not interested in.

- She pays more attention to you, like noticing you more in class or wherever you see her. Her eyes might linger on you sometimes.

- She smiles and laughs a lot when you're talking, seems engaged in the conversation. Wants to hear what you say.

- Gets shy or nervous around you, might even act a little differently than with other friends. Her body language changes.

- Tries to look nice or cute when she knows she'll see you, like fixing her hair or outfit more. Wants to impress you.

- Finds little ways to touch your arm or be close when talking, more than usual friend stuff. Testing physical boundaries.

So in summary, if a girl goes from not really noticing you to actively seeking you out and conversation, paying you special attention, those are signs she might be "feelin you" aka beginning to like you as more than a buddy. You'll have to talk to her more to know for sure!

[BoopBoopBeep]

I've said that to strangers on the train Monday morning. Don't overthink it.

[NathanDavis]

because if she knew you better... she would know how it was

[chrissykerdock]

sounds really bad

[midnightcavern01]

Making conversation