Girls, Is this a sign she would cheat?

[Motheman]

So basically i sometimes notice that my girlfriend will see other men check her out and they will exchange glances and clearly be looking at each other through out the evening. I've noticed this a few times. It has made me feel uncomfortable at times and i have tried to bring it up but she flat out denies it and i dont want to make a mountain out of a mole hill. what does this mean? Whats should i do? any advise would be appriciated.

[MzAsh]

The way I see it, exchanging glances are normal, and not any more or less a sign of one’s potential to cheat as it is of you posting your shirtless body on the internet. Unless, are there other signs?

[Motheman]

I really appriciate you making the effort to give me an answer to this. by the way i see your point about the picture. So what would be the signs she wants other men?

[DishLady]

That’s basically the signal — the eye contact. It’s not like she’s going to throw herself all over a guy when you’re right there.

[Motheman]

@DishLady ok say basically you are saying that her eye contact is signaling that she wants other guys and if she didn't she wouldn't do that

[DishLady]

Yeah.

Or if she’s a BOLD sort of bitch she touches your friends too much and flirts with them… But that’s unusual.

[Motheman]

@DishLady yeah tbh she used to flirt heavily and then deny it and get angry that i brought it up. I have a feeling she sucked a guys dick at a party once. She was flirting heavily with this dude at her friends party. I bring it up and say its not cool, it erupts and we have a massive argument, i said some nasty things, then went home whilst she remained at the party, i tried calling her but it was going straight to voice mail. The next day i asked her if she had had oral sex with that guy (i asked that question out of the blue and dropped it on her) she started smirking and replied 'did stacy (her friend) have oral sex with you' whilst smirking as a kind of counter argument to disprove that she had done anything wrong. So i i think she sucked his cock.

[DishLady]

So she’s a tramp, man! What do you want me to tell you? Why are you still with her? Dump the trollop and make better choices!

[Motheman]

@DishLady so you think she did suck his cock? Or is that obvious lol

[DishLady]

DID or WANTED TO — and what’s the difference, then? If she’s not thinking of you… YOUR feelings (and YOUR cock 🫣😳😳), then why is she with you — and why in the world are you with her?

[Motheman]

@DishLady fair! I dont have proof and can't really do anything now was 9 years ago

[DishLady]

Hmm… If you feel you don’t have enough of a lead to go on then perhaps it wasn’t outright flirting, then….

[Motheman]

@DishLady i could see thatbit was from body langauge etc. But it to distant past to have c9ncreate evidence and i think with those things unless recorded on camera she can plausably deny

[DishLady]

It's not a guaranteed red flag to cheating, but it's a possible red flag of her looking at her prospects and seeing if she can "level up" to something better than what she has (which is also douchy).

[Motheman]

Thats really insightful. And kind of what i suspected. What would be some signs in your opinion that she might be looking to 'level up'

[DishLady]

(First of all, if she's doing it in front of you, please be advised that YOU need to level up...)

Ahem... if she's looking at guys or asking about them or making sure to catch their eye... red flags.

[Motheman]

Thats fair and sounds good advice. How would i know if she was trying to catch their eye? What kind of thinks should i look out for because i want to know beyond doubt that im right.

[DishLady]

I mean… you’d see it… Try catching her eye across any distance… you see what you do and what she does. It’s the same thing.

[Motheman]

So there are no specific signals women give to guys they are interested in?

[Anonymous]

Put a shirt on if you want to be taken seriously.

[Motheman]

Why dont you answer the question instead of going out of your way to comment some fucking bullshit like that younfucking karen! You are a karen