How long is too long in texting? I messeged a woman and she responded 6 months later. So I responded back to her 6 months later?

[Anonymous]

So as to not seem too eager. Is she still interested?

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa six months between replies is a crazy long time man! I wouldn't read too much into her responding after that long. A few thoughts:

- She could have just been going through old messages and replied on a whim without much thought.

- Waiting another 6 months to reply comes off as a joke or game, not really showing sincere interest.

- Chances are if she was actually interested before, her feelings probably faded after such a long time with no communication.

- I'd say anything more than a couple weeks between texts and the conversation is pretty much dead in the water.

If it were me, I probably wouldn't bother replying back after 6 months too. That ship has likely sailed. Unless she tries re-engaging the conversation right away, I wouldn't get your hopes up. Maybe just leave it at that and move on to chatting up other girls more actively interested! No point dwelling on something that fizzled so long ago.

[Anonymous]

You have her number, but it never occurred to you to call and actually talk to her... or maybe you're a mute. If so, no offense.