Girls, What things make you obsess over a guy🧔🏻‍♂️?

[Anonymous]

It can be anything even dirty tell me! 😊

Something superficial like looks

Not superficial

[_Maya_]

I don't obsess over people. Hell I'm up this early to get ready for a four hour trip to help my sister move into her dorm and this is what you guys come up with these hours of the morning. Dirty? Why would I obsess over anything let alone something dirty? I do like cleanliness so the odds of me wanting something dirty is slim to none. You have just reinforced my choice to be with a girl rather than a guy. While your post lacks context you sound like my ex boyfriend. Very hyper sexual and not able to control himself. While I can't say that I obsess over a person I can say that it won't be over superficial things... ever. A guy or girl has to have it all for me to be interested. By all I mean the total package which doesn't begin with your package.

[Asker]

Well it could be anything. Women are supposed to obsess over their man, he’s your king

[_Maya_]

No he isn't

[Asker]

Men lead women follow. You need to learn to respect a man as your leader if you want a successful relationship

[_Maya_]

Ah so you are trolling. I have a successful relationship and it is because there is no man involved.

[SueShe]

The second I would obsess over a person, regardless of gender would be the second I know that this person is not the right one for me.

I associate obsession with negativity because to me, it means that I cannot control myself and obsessing over a person, an event or a thing is something that would work me up to such an extent that I lose control over my reasoning and ability to make decisions based on facts rather than emotions.

Furthermore, I don't really see why obsessions have to be dirty? I presume that you are referring to pornography here and not cleanliness, right?

That's another thing I just have to shake my head in disbelief. Why does everything have to be pornographic with you guys! Is it really something that is necessary?

[_Maya_]

His account is on hold. *Elevator music plays*

[SueShe]

@_Maya_ I hate elevator music. It's never ending!

[_Maya_]

Sorta like his trolling

[cherrybloss00]

I never was crazy obsessed about a guy until I actually got to know him but not in like a creepy weird way. It is pretty sad to say out loud (or rather share in this case) and I don't really share my opinion on things but after really getting to know somebody and how they treat me, how they take care of themselves, and others around them really explain their character. And soon enough I find anything they do attractive. Their smile and their laugh are really memorable. Their voice. The way they are so considerate of everyone around them like you know they're genuine. However, this is also admiration more than obsession but honestly I think it is a mixture of both for me. I wish him the honest best and the greatest happiness because he is such a kind hearted wholesome guy. He's hot, sexy, smart, sweet, and all around a sweet guy :D But if I'm being honest the biggest thing I'm obsessed with is his eyes and the way he picks up on how I feel without me saying anything that is real talent since I can be unpredictable. He simply just sees me and cares about how I feel and think and kindly encourages me to come out of my comfort zone

[DishLady]

I’ve never obsessed over a guy…
But the guys I like aren’t typically “pretty boys”… it’s more a sweet quality in the middle of all the tough/strong qualities that make me think of them in a more-than-fleeting way that makes me smile and grow to care for them.

[JSkye]

Personality and grooming.

Personality comes first and foremost, especially a good sense of humor and being a good conversationalist.

Good hygiene is important because it shows that you care for yourself and that's important.

[M4Y3DA]

as a teen who grew up with a lot of attention and has been called pretty most of her life,

I was a little pissed off when a 4/10 looking boy didn't obsess over me when I gave him some attention.. HE IGNORED ME!

And I started obsessing over him instead till he gave me attention :) well the obsession got off but we're good friends ad we both low key like each other now.. so

"not giving me attention makes me obsess over a guy"

[fridzyy]

there was this guy who joked a lot and but was kinda nerd. i liked him a lot though i still dont know why, because he definitely didn't look above average. We just used to vibe. xD

[Ms_Facesitter]

I don't know how to answer this. How well we click I guess. But obsessing isn't good. I have my own life to live.

[Nikki1989]

Charm, charisma, sense of humour, a passion for the same interests.

[Anonymous]

Nothing don't play shit games and be yourself. Otherwise the obsession is a negative type and not positive. There is no obsession needed. Love is Love , choose peace ;)

[DizzyDesii]

Cute face, amazing smile and lots of common interests/beliefs/morals

[Anonymous]

I haven't really obsessed over guys since I was 15, and then it was all physical.

[texascollegegirl]

Size of his ****

[PrettyCrumblBb]

When he loves God. 🩷