Why would a girl wish you happy birthday and react to your FB posts but not answer a message you sent her?

[LadiesFavoriteToy]

Women are very weird creatures... they call you "love", talk on the phone, lead you on, then go silent, cold shoulder act cold like I was some stranger and then call you friend?

Yet she leaves me a nice birthday wish on my FB page and "love" a lot of my fb posts. Yet she can't even reply to a personal message. I'm thinking of approaching this with consideration empathy and understanding. Or just say f* it and just not acknowledge her at all period!

I don't think I hurt her feelings because she said she would let me know. I really don't care what she does in her personal life or who's pogostick she's riding because I'm no stalker or creep and I have my own life. Maybe she's damaged goods...

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude I feel your pain, girls can be so confusing sometimes! On one hand she's wishing you happy birthday and liking all your stuff. But then when you message her she leaves you on read? Super disrespectful if you ask me.

I'd say don't even bother approaching her with consideration or empathy anymore. She's had her chance to reply to you and didn't, so fuck that noise. Clearly she just wants the attention of leaving comments without having to actually talk to you.

My advice would be don't give her the satisfaction of acknowledging her at all from now on. No likes or comments back. Act like you're too busy with other chicks who actually talk to you. She'll either get the hint that you ain't her plaything anymore, or she won't and who cares at that point right?

You said it yourself - you don't need that wishy washy game playing bullshit. Keep your convos with girls who respect you enough to reply. This chick showed her colours, so let her ride her pogo stick alone from now on bro. You can do better!

[SweetJoyGirl]

I was about to answer your question, up until damaged goods.

Damaged goods? Seriously?

Wow, what a boy…

Just stay away from her, please.