Women empowerment or double standards?

Women are so empowered today and are even performing much better than men in many fields and that's a good thing but when it comes to relationships why women want patriarchy? And in divorce courts all of a sudden they are victims.

For example, I'm not that patriarchal alpha man, I love high earning, physically and mentally strong, dominant women, I would happily take on the submissive role but these women themselves want a man who is superior than them while these women are superior than most men

Why are we forcing men to be patriarchal And Support gender equality and women empowerment at the same time, these things don't go together?

( I didn't allow men to answer this because they would come up with red pill, alpha stuff)
Women empowerment or double standards?
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