Girl put me in friendzone fast?

[badg96]

I met a girl last night at a friends dinner I had never seen her before. We went to a club and she asked me for my Instagram and cell phone number. When we were leaving the club she asked where I work and she said I work near her, she said we have to have lunch during the week but she wants her brother to go too. she friendzone me?

[Anonymous]

Not necessarily. She could be doing it for safety reasons. I mean she barely met you. It could be that she’s bringing him along to evaluate you. To see if you’re real about how you feel about her just trying to get laid. Mane her family on let her date a man w out having a male family member around. Not that it’s similar but I remember when I was in the service, I kept seeing this girl out in town in South Korea. One day I bought her some flowers. I walked off. The next day I went to see her again. Her father asked if I wanted to take her out, but her little brother had to come along. Turns out she didn’t speak English, he did. Not the same yes but I don’t think she’s friend zoned you right that quick. So go. See how it plays out. Maybe she’s testing you to see if you’ll flake out that her brother will be there.

[ManOnFire]

Mmmmm not necessarily. Could be that she's interested and maybe she wants your brother to vet you out and see if you're a "safe" guy, or if he will approve of you for her. Cuz it seems like she probably is interested but making it like it's just going to be a nice little lunch with you and her family. Chicks always try to pretend they're not doing what they really are doing.

[badg96]

If the girls are interessed they not prefer always be alone with the guy?

[ManOnFire]

Usually, yes. But I don't know her background or culture. Cuz I know with some like Indians and others from that region, they can get family involved in who they're trying to date, like having a male relative there for protection or something. Or maybe she's religious.

[badg96]

She is european is not indian

[ManOnFire]

Could still be a cultural thing though.

[RebelinSteel]

Not really, she just wants a second opinion of you, see if you are an arsehole or not. Pass the brother test and she may look to take it further, fail it….

[scott04sa22]

Yes and no but depends

[badg96]

Depends of what?