Is paying to talk/have a chance to talk to a girl who does adult content lame and stupid?

[MLGbreezy]

Is paying to have a chance to date someone who does adult content lame and stupid? I saw this girl on instagram a while ago incredibly beautiful but she had a lot of fillers and then wracked up even more very fast in part because she started something similar to a Onlyfans. I’d never get a response on ig one because people with way more dollars then you just will never get your message even more so if it’s a girl your sending the message too and two instagrams new feature which makes it so that if a person isn’t following they have to accept your message to chat adds another later or difficulty of even the average girl seeing your message. I did sub and shoot my shot is it really dumb /stupid /lame to do this especially with a girl who does this line of work?

[Anonymous]

Yes. You will never date her and I don’t know why you’d think you have the chance to. She’s a sex worker, she let’s horny or naive men pay to talk to her, that’s how she makes money. She has no intent to date any of you... It’s porn with the chance to send the porn star messages, a fantasy, that’s what she’s selling. And you’re one of hundreds or thousands of men sending her messages. It’s a complete waste of money if you’re doing it in the hopes of making any sort of real connection or dating her.

[MLGbreezy]

Okay but men pay average woman every day with the chance to just talk to them it’s called modern dating so who’s really the idiot?

[MLGbreezy]

Men nowadays have to deal with woman complaining about how we do everything wrong so much show that the places we take them for dates are becoming an issue Cheesecake Factory /shake shacks and I’m sure they’ll be more and at the end of all that we don’t get to see any ass or any tits and you say it’s a waste of money as if strip clubs don’t exist with literally the same premise for making money.

[Juxtapose]

She's a sex worker, she's so desensitized to attention and also she will automatically think lowly of people messaging her. She probably thinks all of her fans are losers but doesn't say so because she wants their money.

Don't pay for attention unless you really want a fantasy.

[MLGbreezy]

Okay see if a girls behavior in this line of work is one thing but I don’t get people that say don’t pay for a fantasy dating is literally you paying some girl you don’t even know that you’ll mesh well with to give you for it to not work out 75% 50/50 if your lucky

[MLGbreezy]

I dont make that point to say that your really wrong about the premise at surface value but just like every girl isn’t just wasting your time when it comes to regular dating not every girl that makes adult content is just there for money and a fantasy and i definitely think there levels to it. Since I’ve talked to a few girls who do just that and have had very good experiences for the most part.

[Juxtapose]

I don't pay women for their time to date me that's a sucker move.

If they can't hangout with me for FREE then they aren't for real.

[MLGbreezy]

So you’ve never paid for anything when taking a girl out on a date?

[Juxtapose]

My own food. I only paid for a date when a restaurant would not let us split and she offered to pay for it all.

[Huntingnfishin]

It's a little sad. But if talking to an attractive woman helps boost your personal self esteem and some how makes you happier then go for it

[MLGbreezy]

I find it’s interesting the way some guys are looking at this we do this in our daily live every day just to have a chance at a girl possibly considering dating us or hooking up with us when it come to dating but just cause it’s someone who happen to do sex work that changes the entire context now it’s sad?

[MLGbreezy]

From what I’ve seen dating is entirely transactional on the men’s side to begin with is it not?

[Huntingnfishin]

I didn't mean to be mean. Dating and sex being transactional... yeah it's a funny joke to say it, but in reality it's not. There is a connection, even if it's just sex. Women aren't emontionless beings. You paying for things and buying her things shouldn't be a transaction. In her mind you're showing her that you find her special and that she is somehow worth what you got her. I don't quite know how I want to explain it.

[beefcakebradybatson]

I wouldn't do it.

[jahaims]

Duh.

[MLGbreezy]

Sooo then why do men do this every day just for the chance to have a girl possibly consider dating them?

[jahaims]

That is called a loser. They are losers. That is what losers do.