Why do women cheat so much?

[Anonymous]

I feel like all women cheat. It's all I hear about. Why would I get married if I know she'll just cheat on me?

[MisterWack]

“I feel like all women cheat. It's all I hear about. Why would I get married if I know she'll just cheat on me?”

Facts don’t care about your feelings, majority of women don’t cheat and by the way when they cheat it involves a man most likely so the man would also be involved and enabling that behavior so one false.

Saying it is all you hear about is irrelevant because all I could hear about is how the Earth is flat from my Inbred Cousins, does that mean the Earth is truly flat… Exactly so another false.

Ending it simply with, one woman cheating doesn’t hold back the whole gender and therefore shouldn’t stop your ambitions to get a girlfriend then marry her then so on. Just sounds like you are mad butt hurt about women and don’t want to have anything to do with them since you don’t value them as people becoming involuntarily detached from heterosexual relations with the opposite gender.

My advice, see women as kind & nice & sweet & compassionate then maybe by changing your mind set / adjusting your attitude towards the whole ‘situation’ you can come out stronger and end up married with children.

[Anonymous]

because nobody holds them accountable for cheating

holding them accountable is deemed "hate speech" or "misogyny"

[alice55]

Men cheat a lot more in my country nearly 70 % of men cheat and around 30 % of women.

You're free to do what you want but keep in mind a women have much more chance to get cheated on and lied to than a man so women should be the one refusing to get into a relationship than the reverse if we use logics.

[NYlatefun]

@alice55 really? I didn’t know that, I thought that now it was more similar for both genders.

[alice55]

@NYlatefun Is it not, men cheat a lot more even today, women are often very dumb when they're in love (especially young one only 50s years old women and older do not take any shit anymore), men cheat a lot cause (in my country at least) they consider it as ok if they're not married to cheat cause it's not a serious relationship but girlfriend are just for fun.

[NYlatefun]

So interesting. I’ll look it up but I’m pretty sure in the us it’s closer to 50/59

[alice55]

@NYlatefun Yes, I think in the us is it closer 50 / 50 usually.
There's also Denmark and Thailand that is interesting cause there it's mostly women that cheat nearly 65 % of women in those countries cheat, usually its also the men by much more but in Denmark and Thailand it's the reverse.

[NYlatefun]

What? I wouldn’t think of Thai women as empowered, danish, sure.

[alice55]

@NYlatefun It's not empowered, women from poor countries like Thailand and Philippine cheat a lot because they want to get a better lifestyle (for themselves, their families and their kids) so they cheat if they know it's going to get them a better lifestyle.
I do not see how being "empowered" matter at all in cheating, women from poor / third worlds countries have no loyalty expect the want to get out of their poverty to get a better futur for their kids and get their parents good care for their old days.

[NYlatefun]

Honestly I don’t know much about the topic, is that why they do it?

[alice55]

@NYlatefun Yes, is it why they do it, to assure the future of their children and the care of their old one. I know about it because there's quite a fews Vietnamese immigrant where I live (always women and her children) usually those have done "night" job like prostitution back in their countries or hostess, strip tease, etc.. they get lots of money going those then they use this money to get out of their countries (either they do this either they marry a foreigner but in France Asian are not popular because our culture are too different, they're consider as weird in general because they do not understand irony at all). And the women that are able to get the money to get out of Vietnam goes to France (because they used to be our ex colony in the early 20th) then they work all kind of job here, they work hard and send their money to their family back home but if they can cheat their ways to the top then they do it with no remorse as money is extremely important to them because it mean taking care of their family. They put all their energy for their parent and children but the husband does not matter to them as is it just a mean to an end, they do not have the same culture as us when it come to love for them is it usually just a transaction for money no lie involved in their culture. The whole love marriage is a western things. In Arab countries for example is it just full of arranged marriage as seeing women before is forbidden (for the believer and non westernized one). And in Asia they find a husband for what he can give them and what he can bring like futur for her children / parents (because in Asia daughter need to take care of her parents and bring them enough money as they don't get much money as retiree).

[Abbycado]

That would be like saying “Why are all men pigs?”

They aren't and all women don’t cheat. If that’s your stance then don’t marry. No one is forcing you.

Why not just crawl back in your hole and quit bitching? Why have to post if you don’t want to marry?

[Asker]

50/50 chance you've cheated before and are mad that I indirectly called you out.

[Still-alive]

Yeah notice all the incel types come out of the wood work anytime a woman complains about men but when men wine about women they expect us to take them seriously i guess. double standard

[Abbycado]

I’ve been in one relationship you fuckwit. That blows your math apart.

Don’t make assumptions about people you don’t know. I can see why you went anon. Such a little twat.

[Asker]

Good for you, maybe I was a little general in saying 'all', but the vast majority do. Why is it that when a man loses his job, all his money, does his wife leave him? It's a tale as old as time. Man loses job, money is tight, wife leaves him for someone else. I've had multiple buddies have this happen to them.

[Abbycado]

Then they married cunts. All women don’t do that. Another retarded generalization.

My point remains. Don’t date, don’t marry. No one is forcing you. Spend your time on something better than bitching about something well within your control.

[Asker]

Pleasing women is not within our control. You ladies have developed extremely high standards that are impossible for 99% of men to reach. This is why hypergamy is a thing now.

[CalmUntilAbused]

Well... If You feel like all women cheat, You are severely misguided. While cheating has definitely become a predominant trend among women towards the end of the 20th century and beyond, even these days not all women cheat. Christian women in particular are significantly less likely to cheat (only if they are true believers and not posers, though - the "church girl" stereotype is worthless these days, since it's easy for a poser to imitate such a girl). Therefore, the only safe marriage to actually go for is the true, traditional, purely Christian marriage.

Then again, it's not surprising that all You hear about is women cheating. The media love their drama, and then there's the added benefit (in the eyes of those some might call the high lords, while most will simply call them the Deep State) of lowering the morale of men so that they give up on the society, leading to its much faster deterioration and subjugation. However, You must remember that in many cases, the man a woman is cheating with is also cheating, and even if it's not the case (meaning he's not engaged in a relationship with another woman), he's still facilitating her cheating, so he's also to blame. The cheaters and those they cheat with are both to blame for cheating, and it just so happens that every act of cheating involves both a man and a woman.

[Summeroflove]

All women do not cheat and neither do all men but a lot of people from both sexes do.

One is a addiction to sex they cannot be happy if they’re not having sex it’s gratification/getting their rocks off.

Another reason is because they don’t feel a genuine connection in a relationship (I’m not offering excuses what’s wrong is wrong as well as making bad choices isn’t okay it’s just reasons) so they’re looking for that through external sources.

Another reason is feeding their ego if someone’s insecure they may use having sex as a means to validate themselves by feeling desired by someone else.

At the end of the day it may be a lot of these things. If you’re cheated on once they cheated 1,000 times dump her (or for the ladies him) like that bad habit she is. Especially if she feels no genuine remorse for her actions that says narcissist at best psychopath at worst. Normal people cannot chest and feel nothing. It’s someone whose done it habitually when chronically until they don’t feel anything anymore or even get off on it being wrong.

No matter what excuses and/or justifications are made it is a choice to cheat if someone’s unhappy or looses internet be a adult and break up.

[Summeroflove]

You also have to understand opportunities now someone with integrity would do the right thing but even men who have lots of opportunities give in and cheat.

Even if someone doesn’t just cheat with anyone there are other people out there and they may let it get the better of them especially if the opportunity is there and they don’t think they’ll get caught.

Again someone with integrity and self control would never.

[ManOnFire]

Personally I do think women cheat more than men, and I believe the reason for it is because women change like the weather. They don't know how to be as content in life as men, and they try to use "It's easier to make men happy than women" as a way of trying to spite them or wanting men to apologize for their happiness, but it's true. Men are more content than women, and men know how to be more content. Both men and women look for external things to make them happy, but women do this at a greater rate then men, needing to fill their inner void.

This also translates over to why women want new/different partners more often than men. It seems to be that women get what they wanted/needed from a man and then they grow "bored" and need to move on to the next one. This boredom is fueled by inner discontent and not much inner cultivation.

[Asker]

This is so true.

[Agape93]

We can ask the same thing of men. Why bother when we will get cheated on? See how sexist that sounds?

Most people don't cheat. Get that shit outta your head.

[Abbycado]

He’s just a troll.

[Asker]

@Abbycado No, I'm dead serious. I've seen so much cheating in the world. Mostly from women.

[Agape93]

I know he is, but it's still annoying af. He's already been linked to admin and reported.

[Abbycado]

Good. XD

Mwah 💋

[Asker]

Go ahead. Report me. You can't hide form the truth. Men are growing weary, and the simp breed is starting to die.

[Agape93]

Muah 💜

[JesseP1nk]

LoL. Do women cheat - sure. But not all of them. Same goes to men. You googled "why women cheat" and now google and other search engine suggests you the topics that relates to those topics. While you see those topics it makes you feel like everyone are doing it but that is not the reality

[Nirmroth]

I find it so stupid to blame always the whole gender as whole for some Bad Apples. Applies to men and women haters here

[Nikki1989]

I have never known any cheating women, but I have heard about MANY cheating men.

[New_Girl99]

Why would you assume that…?
Who do you hear that from?
You shouldn’t NEVER EVER marry a person if you’re not absolutely sure it‘ s the one!
I have 2 friends (female) that are already divorced at 26 und 28…

[MasterKS]

@New_Girl99 absolutely correct!

[New_Girl99]

@MasterKS thanks!

[MasterKS]

@New_Girl99 Thumbs up!

[Asker]

Guarantee your friends cheated on their spouses. They probably left them for the man they cheated with. Women never leave without having another man in mind first. That alone is another form of cheating.

[New_Girl99]

No. No one was cheating. Both couples were fighting a lot about things like: should they get a dog? Should they buy an apartment? They wanted to live differently…

[Asker]

'Live differently' is code for the man wasn't rich, or tall, or had a big dick.

[New_Girl99]

You automatically assume the divorce was initiated by the women. That wasn’t the case. you know these couples eere in relationshops for some years before marrying…so their anatomy and financial situation was no secrets for their partners. I’m sorry - but I know my friends and their relationship issues a little better than you…

[Asker]

I can say almost with certainty that the divorces were initiated by the women. Women initiate the majority of divorces. That is a statistical fact.

[slatyb]

Heterosexual men and women cheat equally. The numbers are about equal, and when a woman cheats with a man, a man is cheating with a woman.

[AviatorTom]

Perhaps that would be because most women believe they are always right, never wrong, so cheating is not wrong.

[Billlewis]

Because they can, and because a surprising number of men secretly love it.

[LiamJHayden]

lol Cheaters cheat. Faithful ones do not. These traits apply to men and to women. Not all of either sex cheats.

[Anonymous]

Well first off it isn't ALL women. But the ones that do do so for one reason, POOR CHARACTER. No self respecting woman does this.

[RavVid]

It is very common and I ask the same question.

[Anonymous]

We get offers all the time.

[normalice]

They dont.

[Asker]

Bullshit.

[normalice]

About 3% of women cheat. Just stats 🤷

[Asker]

Major sampling bias in that data. Why would women admit to doing something so shameful?

[normalice]

Same reason men would, who are also at 3%

[art84]

Both men and women cheat.

[verified]

Probably for the same reasons men do

[Anonymous]

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