Women of GAG, describe your perfect man. What physical and personality characteristics do you look for?

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Hurtandconfused7777 · Accepted Answer

Well at my house now physical characteristics come secondary I mean I want them to be halfway attractive looks matter to a certain extent of course you have to be physically attracted to somebody I would think... However when we are younger a lot of people don't realize we look for the same traits in our mate that we want to see in our children so when I was younger I always went for the blonde hair blue-eyed guy he had to be over 6 ft tall I had very specific standards or very specific guys that I dated they couldn't have brown hair and if they didn't have blue eyes they were out now I really don't care what color their eyes are I care how their heart is I want a best friend I want someone who is loyal to me only has eyes for me that goes to work and is excited to get home to a nice cooked dinner and maybe we will go on a bike ride or play video games whatever it is we choose to do go to coffee shop go to a movie I just have a dream of meeting this perfect soulmate or husband I feel it and it'll be worth the wait. My man won't be sneaking behind my back to go be with other women because I'm all the woman he will need trust me I will probably over spoil and satisfy him! I won't be calling him or texting him all day to check where he is because I know that we have trust and that he would never do that to me. I will bring him his space but he will be so happy with me that he will feel empty with help me and I will feel the same. Hopefully we will grow old together and I don't know just be really true companions to each other I've never had that and I would love to have that I deserve that and he does too I don't know why people put up with relationships full of toxicity and cheating and lying unfaithfulness and just plain misery that's not me

PBandJ_Nerd · Accepted Answer

I can think of a few: 1. Sweet & a gentleman, 2. Somewhat fit & healthy, 3. Has less body hair (includes the face-no hair), 4. Is a short height, 5. Has great hygiene, 6. Will be gentle & patient with me, 7. Has young looks (I look younger than my age, why not have a boyfriend that understands the struggle?), 8. likes receiving affection, 9. enjoys receiving things like flowers, chocolates, etc., 10. At least shares some of my interests & things in common. If I keep listing, we'll have more than I thought of putting. But yeah, they have to be a good person & have a good personality. I think this is a good way to wrap it up.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

6 feet tall, 6 pack abs, 10 inch dick, no balding

multi-millionaire, millions of social media followers

10/10 androgynous handsome face as a blonde hair, blue eyed white guy or 10/10 masculine handsome face as a black guy

has superpowers, can beat up anyone including multiple attackers

can sing and dance like Harry Styles, same interests and hobbies

is dominant over all other men but a complete feminist who supports Kamala Harris, Taylor Swift, Meghan Markle, Cardi B, Kim Kardashian etc.

hates the Bible but also tries to be like Jesus in the Bible

calls out anyone who dares call out my own bad behavior, defends my bad behavior

^ yeah this sounds like the perfect man ^

Juxtapose · Accepted Answer

I'm not a woman but I am bisexual so I will participate anyway.

RubyFrench · Answer

- Loyal
- Tall enough (I won't say 6'2, but not short)
- Handsome (groomed, nice smile and teeth)

- Sensitive yet not a pussy
- Emotionally supportive and strong
- Good in bed (pleases you a lot)
- Smart with a woman's mentality
(Usually better if they grew up with sisters)
- Not a push over but not too dominant

(Im describing my beautiful husband)
but thats generally what women look for ^ 🫶🏼

Anonymous · Answer

-25 years older than me
- 1-2 inches taller than me
- husky build
- bald
- attractive face (to me)
- forearm tattoos
- dark hair genes
- brown eyes
- sweet person but not soft
- smart but not a know it all
- confident but not cocky
- a humble dresser; i dont like fashionable guys, or guys that care about their looks. Just be hygienic and dont look dumb lol
- honest
- id have to be his first love. I can't do guys that are in love with an ex. They’ll never get over them and will never really be in love with you
- no kids
- doesn't watch p*** and if he does, it better not be t**n p***.
- better not be a teacher
- he has to not go for young girls or women. Id have to be the exception
- just be absolutely obsessed and in love with me because i love hard. I dont want to be more in love with him than he is with me

Lynnzee · Answer

I like tall, but would not discriminate if he was shorter than me cause I'm 5'9. He must be funny and have a since of humor... sarcasm is welcome. I do need him to believe in God but those details can be discussed (but no atheist sorry). Someone that will treat me like a queen and I will treat him like a king. He has to have drive and motivation. He needs to be a goal getter not someone who just talks.

ChillNsweet32 · Answer

Physical - Taller than me, decent face, hygienic, average weight.
I have a thing for broad shoulders 🥵. Long as I'm attracted... I'm not really all that shallow or too fixated on a guys looks because it's his personality that makes it or breaks it for me... but I do have to attracted initially.

Personality - Courageous, independent, humorous, loyal, determined, protective, trustworthy, dominant, stubborn, tough

silvermoon84 · Answer

Great personality, sense of humor, fun to be with, not afraid to make a move on me and treats me well. I’m not picky about things like his looks or how much money he makes, as long as he makes enough to pay his bills. Also, it’s a plus if he’s a dog lover (like me).

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

That is a long list but I will give three for physical and mental traits.

He's in shape but not bulky like the hulk. More like those skinny guys you see doing pull ups at the park.
He's gota cute smile. He's got beautiful eyes. A man who speaks with his eyes? I can't explain it 😊

Personality. Funny. Like cracking me up, no lame dad jokes or a chuckle. Really making me laugh. If he's confident. A man who believes in himself. Sassy, like having a sharp tongue. I love that.

Babygirl_S · Answer

Ever since I discovered him, it’s been Henry Cavill. I love looking at his photographs, especially from his 20s and he will always be my ideal man. I am sure he is as good as he looks. So basically I look for similar traits.  No one is good enough for him 💋💋💋

JSkye · Answer

Funny, kind, and open-minded.

Physical characteristics are of little consequence, but I like abs and legs.

These are the same traits I look for in women too (except that you can add curves to the list).

NathanDavis · Answer

brings you cheesecake...

TheRealPepperPotts · Answer

Fit and active Kind and authentic Good work ethic and sensible Totally in love with me. :D

ManInChains · Answer

Do we really need to know this? 😑

Walksbehindtherows · Answer

They like men with big dicks

Anonymous · Answer

my perfect man is only in fictional :(

chocolatetwopointo · Answer

he js has to be normal no cringy shit

Chevy1_kb · Answer

Nothing

verified · Answer

Just tag me lol

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