Mean to girls to be more attractive?

[morganherrel]

Does a girl respect you less if you're extremely nice all the time? Is there room to be cold sometimes when she still trusts you are nice deep down?

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Why would you intentionally act cold to someone you like? Do you honestly believe anyone with a good self esteem wants to be with someone who intentionally acts cold to them? Not saying you have to feign niceness all the time, but just be yourself. Be genuine. That's what girls want for the most part. If you end up being an asshole then your options will be much more limited.

[Lost_in_the_Woods]

I have been told by many women that my problem dating was that I am too nice and girls want a man who will "push them around a bit" not just be kind and sweet all the time.

My response was that I'm not going to pretend to be a jerk to attract women who like jerks.

But yes. It's a real thing I have been told by women from teenagers to women in their 60's.

It's also easy to see the evidence of this at just about any bar.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

That's stupid and if you wanna play games, go buy an xbox. Just be genuine. Too nice is phony and can easily be spotted. Too mean and it's a turn off.

[Lost_in_the_Woods]

<3 :)

[MK1997]

If she likes you she won't mind if you are cold sometimes or rude. Being nice all the time is fake to me so I don't respect it much

[Anonymous]

In a word, "yes". You don't got to be a straight up a**hole. But it's always better to lean to side of being an a**hole rather than being too nice. The only thing that shows a woman 8s you have no balls, no teeth. And that she can roll you. And women do not respect guys like that.

[Nirmroth]

You have to differ between beeing nice and beeing a doormatt. If you behave like a slave its not very attractive but acts of kindness are.