i used to be chubby and have recently lost a lot of weight and have been getting a lot of attention of guys lately which is all very new to me and to be honest I'm not liking it! its nice to feel like people think your pretty but now when I talk to guys its like they have an agenda to get with you and I just want it to be back to normal where they spoke to you for you not cause of what you looked like (I'm not talking about all guys there are plenty out there who are not like this and are lovely). The other night I was being paranoid cause guys I knew kept staring and cause I still have the same brain as I did when I was chubbier I thought they were looking cause they were saying bad things or thinking I looked ugly . anyway I was just being a paranoid idiot and my brothers best friend said to me that there looking cause they think your hot and a girl who doesn't know she is is even more attractive. do you think this is true?
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well in one sense some girls that know they are hot and get lots of attention can be stuck up which in turn is a turn off. however, not knowing you are attractive when you are could either mean you might be insecure (think you are ugly when you are not) or it could mean you might be modest then the stuck up chick with the haughty look in her eyes (a turn off)
so, being beautiful and driving a guy wild and not knowing you are doing it is well..sexy..especially if you are a modest nice sweet girl. so yea.0