Why do you think there are so many "pick me" girls today?

[ChiTown33]

[YevgenyMikhail]

I see more pick-me guys than girls. I see a lot of women doing their own thing and minding their business and then men complaining about them because of their lack of success in life and with women.

[ChiTown33]

OK, man but that was not the question.

[Avicenna]

I think they’re just more visible now because of social media and the validation they get there. There were quite a few of them when I was a young adult.

[ChiTown33]

You might be right on that. It just feels like it's grown exponentially as I've gotten older.

[iCuddleU]

Ooh! Pick me! Pick me sir! XD

What even?

[juliaanita]

what is a "pick me" girl?

[ChiTown33]

Dictionary. com defines it as "a woman who obsessively desires male approval and validation, often at the expense of other women".

[juliaanita]

Of course. So why do you think there are so many pick-me boys today?

[ChiTown33]

I don't think guys do that. Because that wouldn't even work for guys. Women do not compliment guys, not really.
My question SEEMS to offend you for some reason.