Ladies, when you see guys, do you always think they always want an ass to mount?

[Anonymous]

*Im venting*

Women always thinks im looking for sex 🙄, I'm looking for connections and friendships, I know this isn't a dating site, but I'm always open to normal conversations everywhere i meet people. Then, after a while, they get weird, freak out, ghost me, or lost interests over a normal conversation.

Me: Hi, how are you doing?

Female acquaintance: I'm good, just bored 🙄😒

Me: Same here, im just watching cooking videos on YouTube. What about you?

Female acquaintance: * she anonymously ghosted me 👻 and blocked me *

🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

I hate it from the beginning of their conversation they talk about the future so badly with you, then *poof* there gone! 👋

Women need to think more clearly then quickly, judging them, then quickly disappearing on them, then block them out of existence 🙄

The same goes for playing toxic immatured games 😠

[BettaBreedingBabe]

I have had guys and girls do that to me before. Not really sure if it was something I said or just that I wasn’t telling them what they wanted to hear.


I’d almost rather hear others views and opinions and let them hear mine and we don’t have to agree. We can actually agree to disagree and learn more about each other and why people believe or do things they do.


If I ever mention that I’m not religious or something it seems like it makes people uncomfortable and pushes them away. I don’t mind them telling me about their religion or beliefs. I may ask questions, not because I’m judging, just because I’m curious. Then next thing you know….. poof lol

[jojouzumaki]

No. For me, a meaningful conversation is all what it takes.

[Asker]

That's all I was doing was having a normal, meaningful conversation, then *poof* their gone! It happens like 95% of the time

[RespectfulGuy]

Haha, I can definitely understand wheat you went through because I "suffered" such treatments before too, online.

Yes, the keyword is online.

And yes, many men had spoiled the name of men online.

Too many times guys online just want sex.

And many girls had suffered because of such.

My point is, your concern is valid. But we need to empathise with girls.

It's a regret that online relationship has decayed into today's state.

Perhaps questions like yours may slowly help girls understand that not all guys are as "published" online.

[LazerBean]

I do not generally think that when I see a male. But there are some specific males that I may judge that way due to how they in specific present themselves.