To all men. Why? Do you guys stare at a women’s butt?

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Why is it that men stare at a women’s butt?
 I’m a proud Latina with curves but it makes me feel uncomfortable when men constantly stare. I have had many of my friends tell me that men stare at me and my 10 year old cousin even told me that men stare at me weird especially from behind. Also what gives them the right to ever even touch I have gone out to clubs and have had men squeezed my behind and earned them a salp and a huge cursing out. I’m not saying all men but why do you guys stare it’s annoying and it’s uncomfortable

simonqq · Accepted Answer

I don't ever stare so that it's noticeable but I do look at times.

Touching is too far and I've had it happen to myself multiple times by women of all ages. I personally don't care but it feels just weird and stupid. If they wanted something maybe they could get it the normal way. If I did the same back they would probably freak out.

I can't answer for what other men does but if you have a nice butt then it will get you attention even if unwanted because it's something we find attractive. Staring isn't necessary but I guess some can't or doesn't control themselves.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

one because outfits like above, and stances. two... the movements, the bounce, the jiggle is enticing and 3. because... just because

SunnyCaliGirl · Accepted Answer

Because men are men

worldscolide · Answer

Because we like the shape.. here is the rub though. If you dont like it I understand. But don't expect men to change for you. People grabbing you/touching you without consent is gross and creepy, but people looking is harmless.

I'm sorry if someone looking offends you.

But no one has the right to touch you unless you say they can.. nothing you're wearing, nothing you're doing, gives them that right.. you are very much right to slap them if they do, if I were you I'd call the police and report it to the bouncers at the club..

Looking you gotta get use to, touching without consent though you absolutely do not.

TonyMetal86 · Answer

Yes i will stare to your butt if i was attracted to it, if you feel uncomfortable then wear something else... it's not my problem.

When it comes to touching your private parts, no way...
Because i respect s woman's body and i believe that only one man have access to these parts, ususlly it's the husband and maybe if your not married, then your boyfriend if he have your consent.

furiousrat · Answer

Well staring is rude, and grabbing without consent is legit sexual assault. But taking a quick glance when a girl walks past is something most guys definitely do, me included. It's just so primal I can't really explain it, I just love looking at asses lol. And many times it happens without even thinking about it. But yeah staring to the point of making the girl uncomfortable is obviously really rude and shouldn't be done.

Ripper_E · Answer

I don't stare, but it's because it's attractive. I look at things that are attractive, or notice things that are attractive.
I am a proud Latino, with no curves, have been touched by women without consent, but never vice versa.

ImpressiveUsername · Answer

I'm staring because I'm imagining what it looks like under your clothes. Now, I don't know why some guys think they can just touch your ass, because I'm not about to do that.

spartan55 · Answer

Best get used to it, guys will stare at ass until the second date end of time.

Rogzi · Answer

You're question is annoying, but you still asked it. If you don't want to be looked at, stay in the house or were a burka. Otherwise, man up.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Why do people climb mountains? Because they're there!

Sweatyotterr · Answer

Touching is bad obviously but we like butts sorry im gonna look deal with it

Anonymous · Answer

Guys are visual creatures. That' science, nothing more.  You talk as if there's something wrong with being a visual person.

DDpsy · Answer

Because we can and there is not one damn thing you can do about it.

abortedFetus · Answer

Some girls are offended. Some embrace it. Guys are gonna do it regardless.

BeMuse · Answer

Why do you look up at tall guys?

winterfox10 · Answer

It's jiggly and makes us dream of the rest of you!

Evan94 · Answer

Because it's attractive

Anonymous · Answer

post your butt and we'll see

esotericstory · Answer

for reproduction

Sabretooth · Answer

we want it.

To all men. Why? Do you guys stare at a women’s butt?

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