Do you like your siblings or haven't seen each other for a while and hate each other?

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electromagnetic · Accepted Answer

My siblings and I are extremely close. I always say I feel bad for those with siblings that aren’t close because they’re missing out on a lot. It’s different if they don’t have siblings at all because there’s nothing they can compare to but having siblings is amazing!

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

I haven't seen them since 2001. They could be dead for all I know.

Kayla45 · Answer

I have a older sister and a younger sister, I was the middle child.

My older sister and I NEVER got along, even into adulthood, she’s always been a stuck up person who thinks she’s better than everyone because she married a somewhat rich guy and has life on easy mode. She’s very judgmental of me and my husband, calling us ‘broke’ every chance she gets. My husband cannot stand her ignorance, and we try to avoid her when possible.

My younger sister has always been a sweetheart, heart of gold, would always lend a helping hand to those who ask. I love her very much, we still to this day have a very close relationship. It pisses my older sister off, as she’s more Career focused and hates the idea of families. While my younger sister wants a family with several children.

To summarize my older sister is a rich snob who looks down on poor people and does nothing to help their situations. Even when we get together on Christmas or whatever she never buys anything for another person. Even though we will buy her Christmas gifts.

Lliam · Answer

I only have one sibling, a sister who is 3 years younger. We are very close. I love her. We live 400 miles away, a 7.5 to 10 hour trip, depending on traffic. We haven't seen each other for several years. We text regularly. We speak on the phone every once in a while and our conversations sometimes last over 2 hours. We get along great.

She is divorced and has a daughter who is nearly 40 and has a good career but is single. She's a strange one. I wish we were closer but she remains distant, I don't know why.

My wife has 9 siblings. They all live back east, mostly around Cincinnati with one in N. Carolina and one in New Jersey. The dynamic in her family is different. She's very close to two of her sisters and stays in touch with them regularly. She's close to two brothers but speaks to them less often. She rarely has contact with the rest and doesn't like two of her brothers at all. I have to admit that both of them are idiots.
Some of her siblings are married and have kids, even grand kids. I like one of her brothers in law a lot.
My wife is fairly close to her nieces and nephews and has attended some of their weddings.

I've been back to visit many times, especially when her parents were still alive. Some of her family members have visited us in California.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I have three siblings. My sister has been an angry and vengeful woman her entire life. She has backstabbed me repeatedly to try to make herself my mother's favorite. I gave her second and third chances and she still tried to throw me under the bus. I have written her off as an unsalvageable loss and I now call her my ex-sister.

I have an older brother who, despite professional success, is woefully inept socially and he avoids interactions. We both live in our hometown but I haven't seen him in a few years, I don't have any animosity towards him but he is like a stranger to me.

I have a younger brother with whom I have much in common and I see him and his wife on a regular basis.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

I have 2 half siblings I love them both but I don't see them that often. My brother never grew up around me because he has a different mom so I only seen him at Christmas at my grandparents, we get along well when we do see each other tho. My sister is kind of a bitch and one of those people who is super opinionated but is stupider than you. I basically can not take any advice she gives me because it is always the wrong choice lol. She also has a constant jealously if I get anything more than her which I find super petty and annoying. Especially if it is from my dad, but its like you have your own dad and we are adults get over it lol. Other than that she is kind of fun to hang around with tho, whenever she isn't super busy or blows me off for her friends.

MrOracle · Answer

I'm the oldest. I have two sisters and a brother.

The older sister is a bitch. She is self-centered and literally wishes that she were an only child, because she wants all the attention to herself. She is single, she has no real friends (just a few old acquaintences she sees every few years), and no life, because most people can't stand her. I only see her because she lives with my parents.

I see my brother almost every day, as he works for me.

My youngest sister is married, has kids, and lives about 6 hours away. I see them 4-5 times a year, and talk a few more times than that. We all get along well.

Purpleronnie · Answer

I don’t think I ever loved my sister or brother , can’t even say I ever really got on well with them or even felt close to them. Basically growing up I just tolerated them. I don’t even feel that I’ve missed out on anything because of how things were. So no , mostly I just feel very little towards them, they are not in my life any more and we rarely even contact each other let alone actually spend time with one another. Perhaps a milestone birthday or event there would be a feeling that we “ should “ get together or that we feel obligated to but very little by actual choice. People say to me aww that’s a shame , I’m sorry. But I disagree and I don’t want or need any sympathy. I realized a while ago that one likely explanation for this is that we suffered and endured so much as a family and because of that, seeing each other reminds us deeply of all the trauma , hurt and unresolved emotion and none of us have the will or need to move past it.

Lynx122 · Answer

I don't get along with my sister. As soon as she was like 11 she wanted her own room and whenever I tried to talk to her after that she was very reluctant to have a conversation. And she treated my mom like shit, she was always on about what she wanted what she deserved. Financially and career wise she's doing very well now it seems but I've never felt like I'm missing out on anything or so. I feel like she expects me to do something, to reconnect but I'd rather not. She destroyed that feeling of being siblings and being in it together, so now it's gone. I don't hate her but I don't want to spend time and energy on this relationship either. I feel like what was destroyed can't be rebuilt, it can be immitated at best. And I haven't really seen signs that she has changed a lot either. She's grown up now so she behaves a bit better but that's all.

ShellyB · Answer

In between, for a while I hated him, I told my parents he wasn’t my brother anymore, but of course, he is and we can’t just decide he’s not. The reason for this is a long story for another time. Anyway he still bugs me but I processed some of the anger I feel about how he has treated people esp. my mom, and I would say now that I don’t exactly like him, but I love him.

Bricealan · Answer

My only brother and I have never been really close, and he lives in Georgia and I in CA. We did not hate each other but there was always an bit of resentment between us as he is Gay.

Recently he discovered he has terminal Cancer and all of the resentment goes out the window when a brother/sister/mother/father dies or is dying.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I'll never see my brother again, he killed himself several years ago and spent the last few years of his life being an incredible asshole and I don't care if I ever see or hear from either of my ex-sisters!! The ONLY time I'd EVER want to see either of them again is either if they're in the obits or if I have a Louisville Slugger in my hands at the time so I can park their fucking worthless heads in the cheap seats!!

Laciejordan · Answer

I have an older brother and a younger sister. We are an extremely close family. Although my brother lives in another state, him and I do try to talk on the phone as as possible and he comes back home every yr (around Christmas). My sister is more like a daughter lol there's a big age difference. Her and I see each other just about every weekend and always talk on the phone. She is my best friend and I absolutely adore her.

Finchie40 · Answer

My brother and I are very close with each other and there for each other as much as possible , we don’t get to see each other that often , because we live 5 hours apart from each other , but we talk on the phone every week , We are like best friends , that we both can count on Ever since we lost our Mom and oldest brother , we been staying in touch a lot
More , we devoted Fridays’ to be Brother Friday , we will talk on the phone and drink some beers together and talk about everything

katiesmuff · Answer

We are a fairly large clan and love it when we all get together.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Sadly my brother is a toxic control freak and my mom n sis are too afraid to challenge him so they fall in line. I choose self preservation and I now know peace. It's sad.

Foxeyes · Answer

I grew up with 3 brothers all older than me and we went that close. They all have mostly busy lives themselves so we only see each other on bdays or family parties.

NathanDavis · Answer

we get along great (we're three brothers) but one of them lives at a different state so we see him less often, still... couple times a year

IslaTheWitch · Answer

we are close with my sister... and our brother needs to grow up a bit... there is no hatred... just misunderstanding :D

abc3643 · Answer

I haven't seen my sister in about a decade. Fine by me.

molonski2 · Answer

No hate by any means.. But , I'm the youngest of 5 ( 8 years younger ) , and we are all over the place , I'm in a different Country , so its very rare that we all get together.

Clara4567 · Answer

I really like them , siblings will be there forever for me and I will be there for them , both when they need me and also when they don't

LiamJHayden · Answer

No siblings, but I adore my closest friends who are de facto siblings.

GOLDFISH_smile · Answer

I like my sister, hate & haven't seen in a while my brother & other sister.

Rachey1986 · Answer

1 younger sister - 5 years difference. We get on thankfully!

RageBabe · Answer

I don’t hate my siblings. I have not seen my sister in a few months though.

AmeerX · Answer

I have some resentment with them but not hate. I still care about them as they care about me. But my cousins and extended family are gone for good. I don't really want to see them.

worldscolide · Answer

I was an only child. My mom told me I do have a sibling, but she was given up for adoption. Never met her, and no idea how to find her.

jojouzumaki · Answer

I haven’t been been in touched with them for a 10yrs now. But I love them all.

Gauoda_ · Answer

They are Bit**, I don't want to see them anymore

Surely · Answer

I have a seven year older brother. Never did much together with him growing up. Grew further apart as we grew older.

soe11 · Answer

My siblings are loving each other so never hate one another.

Grond21 · Answer

I love all five of them very much and I look forward to seeing them again soon

llorando · Answer

I like my siblings, we get along quite well and see each other often.

Starrrboy · Answer

As of right now.. no, I don't talk to any of them.

Wise4myage · Answer

Me and my sister get along great. We look after each other.😀

LazerBean · Answer

My siblings are wonderful and I love them

Smegskull · Answer

I have a younger sister. She is a spoiled brat and a leach. We do not get on.

MoonFace2 · Answer

I am an only child

Rosebeexx · Answer

I only have a brother and I don't like him. He just disturbs our peace.

Anonymous · Answer

I often disagree with my brother, but sometimes we can get along.

LadyBecks · Answer

I'm close to my siblings and see them often

jazzy34 · Answer

I  love  my sister. 😊❤️

AviatorTom · Answer

My only suster passed away a few years ago.

Friendlybro79 · Answer

Love my siblings. So lucky.

Anonymous · Answer

I’m neutral to my siblings

elaphe · Answer

I love my sister.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Im very close to my siblings. What about you?

Celticwolf78 · Answer

I'm an only child because I was adopted

msc545 · Answer

I have no siblings

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