Subconsciously Dreaming?

[Anonymous]

I had a dream where my coworker breaks up with my other coworker and decided that he does want to get to know me better.

In the real life I’m just a new person on the team who couldn’t be anything else, but distance with my colleagues. I quietly and quickly help everyone else, but I unable to connect with them and their inner circle.

I been doing my best to help everyone and to socialize with everyone but it is obvious that I am attracted to a few of my male colleagues and one of them started getting physically close to another female colleague? No one is sure what their relationship is, but I’m afraid to social with either of them or for some else to notice that I have a crush?

Forbidden desires to get closer to him since I don’t have any colleagues searching for me just to socialize and to be work buddies. Since there’s plenty of other cool coworkers who enjoy the spotlight. I prefer working behind the scenes so I’m reliable to all of my colleagues, but they’re not completely comfortable with interacting with me after 4months.

in the dream - my colleague he breaks up with her and decided that he wanted to date me. Just to sealed the deal with a slow passionate kissing. Somewhere in an art gallery with him looking at one of my paintings looking at the perspective of I felt many positive emotions a lot of desires and a sense of relief that I am okay with this fulfillment of love in my life.

It was gentle slow-paced silence of comfort to be there for someone to hear and see them to help them perspective consider how dramatic and ugly gossip could be at work with breaking up with one girl to quickly began a new relationship with another girl. Not of that was there it was just a pleasant dream.

Until I woke up not disappointed, but hoping for a miracle somewhere someday someone else I have no expectations, but I suppose I am wishing for a closer relationship or something else more.

Does anyone interpret their dreams? Does my dream mean anything? Or nothin

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh wow girl, that dream definitely seems meaningful! Dreams are often our subconscious mind processing things we haven't quite sorted through yet.

It sounds like on some level you're longing for a real connection at work, even though logically you know getting involved with a coworker can be complicated. Your mind might be fantasizing about what it would be like if someone saw your true value there.

I wouldn't read too much into the specific people or details. But it's natural to daydream of romance when you feel a little on the outs socially. Try not to overanalyze the tension with those colleagues either - most likely they're just immersed in their own stuff.

My advice would be focus on fostering other friendships too. Join some work social groups, get to know people outside of the immediate team dynamics. That could help satisfy your need for bonding without any forbidden crush drama.

As for Mr. Dream Guy, don't lose hope! You never know what the future may hold. For now stay confident and true to yourself. Your light will shine through in time, sis. Keep that beautiful head up!

[Anonymous]

Dreams are largely meaningless.