Why does my friend act like we’re close but at the same time acts like she doesn’t care about me but cares about all of her other friends?

[Anonymous]

so basically me and this girl got really close over the course of a year, but she acts super nice to me one day and then cold and semi ignores me the next day. I don’t know why I did and I’ve told her how I felt about this multiple times yet she doesn’t seem to care, she acts like she cares when she continues to do it, she will care at all of her other friends and seems to really like them and treat them well but when it comes to me, she seems to not care about me at all or my feelings

[SueShe]

Those are fake friends that want to be with you when they can take advantage of you but ignore you when they don't need you.

There are multiple reasons why she would act like that but my impression is that she is rather the superficial type of person that seeks validation from others. She may be nice to one you one day if she needs a favor from you but ignores you when you are not needed anymore.

Your best action is to slowly distance yourself from her because she will make you sick and you will start doubting about yourself. On the long run, this is not good and it may even put you in a depressive state.

Cut the tie while you still have that possibility.

[Asker]

Thank you!

[moneymagnet24]

You think you both are close friends
But she don't think you're close friend

[Asker]

Well she called be one of her best friends and told me she loves me and stuff so I assumed we’re close but ig not

[Avicenna]

Cause she’s kind of fake

[Anonymous]

Ask her now

[Asker]

I did

[Opinion Owner]

What did she say?

[Asker]

That she wants to be friends but then she was ignoring me the next few days so I don't know

[Opinion Owner]

Bipolar behavior