Why does my girlfriend never text me first I don't understand?

[Anonymous]

We have been together for 2 months, for some reason I can't understand, she never texts me unless I text her first. For example, I text her good morning first, but she always wakes up before me, but she doesn't text me back. How can I act in such a situation?

[Summeroflove]

Well I cannot read her mind but you need to communicate with her about how you feel and ask her why it is. Some people it’s as simple as they aren’t big texters. Some people just don’t like it but flat ignoring you is wrong.

It depends if this problem carry’s over into other things as well with not putting effort into things. If you feel like the relationship is one sided you may need to consider if it’s worth it. Because there are women who genuinely have something to offer and you don’t deserve to be stuck in a one sided relationship. Where you’re putting all the effort in just to get little to none in return unless it’s to benefit herself.

If you’re planning all the dates. If you’re paying for everything. Getting her gifts. Writing her love letters. Doing all the things cooking for her. Rubbing her feet. And she’s not giving anything back then you need to consider moving on.

If texting is the only problem however then it can probably be worked through.

[Ladsin2]

She doesn't care that much about you. Try not texting her for a while and see if she ever starts a conversation with you. If not, move on bud. Relationships don't work well when the man cares more than the woman.

[CMeow]

To give her the benefit of the doubt, maybe she doesn’t see a point to text someone who she knows is still asleep. She is waiting to hear from you to know you have woken up.
Personally, I see that as a sign she is not very invested in you. I don’t think she wants the relationship to develop into something serious. When I was going on dates with a guy and didn’t feel ready to become serious, I would not put forth the effort to connect with him, because I didn’t want him to be confused about my feelings toward him. I was trying to make it clear I was not ready to deepen the relationship at that time.

[Radiate143]

She's wants to see if you're gonna put your balls on the table and pursue her seriously.

She's going about it the wrong way.

What's a gm text gonna do for me?

Actions. Actions. Gm I can't wait to see you do you wanna do x tomorrow.. this weekend, etc.

[Radiate143]

Better is Gm, let's do x tomorrow/ this weekend at this time. Are you available?

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Enjoy the peace and quiet bro.

[Little_Bumblebee]

Tall to her about it.

If she's like me, she might have some deep rooted insecurity where she worries to become a burden or too much and therefore struggle with texting first.

Or maybe she's not good at doing the whole good morning texts or something completely different.

But you need to talk with her. Especially if it bothers you.

[ephedrine]

The girl seems lazy or, to be honest, she's just not that into you. If she can't be bothered to even send a simple 'good morning', that's a warning sign. Relationships require effort from both parties. First, stop texting and see if she notices. If not, maybe it's time to rethink things.

[Cutea]

For me I want to think that the person actually think of me. I might check when you are online but I will be waiting for you to do the first move. But with time she will start texting, if you communicate with her. Not at all time but few times. Lets be honest. We want to know that you think about us, you want to actually talk with us

[Anonymous]

she doesn't want to. there's nothing you can really do about it. it's kind of weird to be like "why don't you text me good morning first? or text me first?" no one really asks that. you text when you want to talk. far too old to be playing the texting game. you two are already together. no need to count how many times you text each other first. i'll give the real answer tho. girls just like being texted first. it's just how society is.

[eniqma]

To be honest, some girls aren’t really into texting first; that doesn’t always mean they don’t care. Maybe she’s shy, doesn’t text in the morning, or is just waiting for you to take the lead. If it bothers you, talk to her about it in a relaxed way. Communication is a better way to clear up confusion than overthinking.

[Asker]

I know what you mean sometimes, it's easy to overthink these little things. Instead of letting it build up, I'll try to talk to him calmly. Open communication really seems to be the best way to avoid confusion.

[Nikki1989]

Have you ever heard of actually talking?

You can do that on phones too. Imagine that?

[Flower7]

Maybe she’s old-fashioned and feels like the guy should take the lead.

[Unit1]

Girls like that are not interested in you.

Find another.

[Crazzyyworld]

She is passive showing off. Ask her why she doesn’t text you? I don’t know who win the texting war. Give me attention war.

[IslaTheWitch]

not even good morning?

[paledreams]

I'd dislike a lover like that ♀️ 😢

[Lokiion]

She clearly doesn’t like you

[Anonymous]

How often are you having sex?

[Fury_storm]

just stop texting her and see what she does

[BigOscar]

If she loves does it really matter bro?

[Jmmmfi4]

I HATE WHEN PEOPLE DO THAT SHIT

[In_Trance]

Ask her why

[shades777]

She's selfish