My girlfriend never texts me first?

[Anonymous]

she is happy to talk to me but she never text first and she never asks me to hang out but she agrees to my plans. i feel that i am doing all the work

why she is doing so?

[SillyMilly]

I never texted any of my boyfriend's first, it wasn't because i didn't want to talk to them it was because i don't like texting people first cause i don't want to feel like i'm bothering them or anything, most girls feel like guys should text them first, it doesn't mean anything bad, just a habit for most of us. We like the guy to initiate everything lol.

[Asker]

actually thats what she told me and I was skeptical first but here we go it seems other girls have this habit. i know that when you love someone you just have to accept who she is but at the end of the day you like to feel wanted. is there any way to make her change this habit and how? thank you for your reply it is valuable

[SillyMilly]

Just tell her that you would like it and feel more appreciated if she texted you first sometimes and tell her that her texting you would never bother you because you always look forward to hearing from her.

[Afrochick]

She wants you to "chase her" so she knows that you are interested in her still. But I find it odd that she doesn't take the initiative once in a while I mean after all you guys are already together..

[XRabbitHeartX]

Because she thinks you are OK with doing the work or she has become used to it. Talk to her about it. A relationship requires effort from both sides.

[Anonymous]

Doesn't matter why, what matters is when and how you are going to dump her ass.

[sassygirl13]

She read too many "let the guy approach you first" articles or she is just shy.
If you enjoy each other's company it doesn't matter really.

[jamesdegod]

iv never experience this but its a red flag.

[Anonymous]

I hate when girls do that shit