I always have to text her but she never texts me first...

[Anonymous]

There is this girl I like and I know she likes me a lot!

I have made an effort to let her know how I feel, I made her a custom t shirt that she just loves, went to her volleyball games when I only known her for one week etc...

I always have to text her though, she never texts me first. Once we start texting she talks to me and stuff without a problem so I'm not sure if she just wants to be chased (like most girls) or she really doesn't want to talk to me and that's her way of letting me know...

Help?

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+1 y

Well I decided to not text her yesterday at all even though it was killing me but then she did end up texting me first so what does that mean...

[Deeplove55]

she's just not that into you. And yes we do like to be chased by when we really like a guy, you will definantly hear from us. no doubt. so yeah hon she just not as into you as you are. Anytime you date someone and you find yourself calling them twice as much then they are not that interested in really talking to you and hope you just go away because people find it hard to be honest and just say they are not interest so they either disappear by just leaving oer getting quiet like her or being mean to get rid of that person. Stop texting her cause you can start to look desperate and annoying. if she's not responding for long periods of time, it obvious that she just doesn't want to and you should move on. I know you like her and don't want to giv up but soemtimes you got to read the writing on the wall

[Anonymous]

I don't think she likes you that much. You made her a custom t-shirt, go to her volleyball games and all that so from what it sounds like, you are becoming "that guy" to her. You make a huge effort and it sounds like you are not getting reciprication. If she was into you the chase would be over, I think she just doesn't want to talk to you.

[Neubauten]

A few possibilities come to mind.

-This girl might expect that guys *always* initiate communication. Girls often have these arbitrary rules that they refuse to explain to us.

-She's shy, or uncertain about you, and afraid of rejection.

-She's only kinda interested in you, like Deeplove55 said.

I suggest you talk to this girl about it. She can answer your questions better than we can.

[Asker]

Well I decided to not text her yesterday at all even though it was killing me but then she did end up texting me first so what does that mean...