For women who don’t want kids…?

[Anonymous]

Would you date or marry a single father? Someone whose kids are his everything, but has to split custody with the mother?

[emeraldsaphire]

Honestly that's kind of a green flag. He sound so sweet. I'd be open to it for sure, but it's also something you have to tread carefully with. With this kinda relationship their are so many moving parts. So I'd be open to it, but I'd need a lot more info before I made a decision.

[Nikki1989]

If I wasn't married, sure. I love kids and have no issues with single fathers.

[SueShe]

To start with, I don't date and have no plans to do so.

Thus, my reply is highly hypothetical only. If I was obliged to date, then it would be a person that place the same high standards on a number of things such as character, personality and intellect. Those 3 standards (and those only) are the ones that would determine whether I would want to date a person or not.

Now, having children is not an obstacle per se but that person has to prove that he is all I want in a person. His past is a potential issue with me because if he is a player that has had 3+ body counts in his life, then he is on the off-side right away. Also, it takes 2 to divorce or separate and this does not just happen because of the fault one one single person in that couple.

To me, those kids' education play an important role as well. Have they been properly educated or were they just left to themselves and have grown to be toxic?

Too many questions that are unanswered.

[Agape93]

Nope. No kids, period.