Girls, Double Standards?

[Anonymous]

Ladies you love double standards that benefit you; however, you literally whine and complain about the ones that don't. I understand that there are double standards or men and women; however, men tend to accept it where women don't want to. Please don't answer this question with a question. Why is it?

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I like to assume I am asking reasonable adults, it up to you to prove me right or wrong.

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It is

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Ladies; can I just get an actual answer, not a response?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

A man whines and complains about whining and complaining. And they say women are the irrationally emotional ones. What double-standards are you even talking about? The only one I can think of is hypersexualization which would be good from YOUR perspective as a heavily desexualized man but is very obviously more harmful than beneficial.

[Asker]

As I said, at the end of the day (always in general) men accept the double standards. Women want Abortion rights; which is basically the right to unlike an unborn child, and isn't a right. You could just: make the man wear a condom, be abstinant, adoption, or simply not have sex. You want bodily autonomy, yet are ok with men being subject to the draft. Complain about the wage gap, but still want the men to pay for the dates. You want a traditional man; while reserving the right to be a modern woman. I am not desexualized; that is a shaming tactic that women use to discredit the person debating them, sign language. Still attacking the person, instead of argueing the points.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

You’re complaining about women you never interact with, and sex is not always a woman’s choice, not to mention birth control fails often. And men are indeed desexualized compared to how a woman is so hypersexualized that something as mundane as brushing her hair or putting on jewelry is enough to turn someone on. Meanwhile men have to fight to be seen as erotic, pushing yourselves to your physical limits in order to be considered conventionally attractive.

[Asker]

I really do appreciate the back and fourth, not being sarcastic at all. I understand that birth control can often fail; however, that is one part of an example to your question in response to the original question. Another example is chivalry; which is dead because women killed it (in my opinion.) Chivalry is inherently sexist, puts women on a pedestal, and can be viewed as traditional.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

It’s one part that is a viable reason for women to have access to abortion. If men have the option to abandon the mother during pregnancy, so too should the mother have the right to abandon the pregnancy

[Asker]

I am not saying abortion is a bad thing. If women have the right to that, then men need to have the right to financially abandon as well. That is just as an example of some women want their choice but don't want the man to have a choice. They say the man should've kept it in their pants; however, don't want to take accountability themselves. We are trailing away from the original question, that you still have not answered.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

The reason men are held financially responsible is because they never signed away parental rights

[Asker]

I guess I should've made this question a multiple choice, because I still haven't gotten an actual answer from any women. Is the reason because: women are lied to and told men and women are equal, they have been indoctrinated by feminism, their pride and ego are too large, or what?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Feminism is telling women they SHOULD be equal, not that they are. Feminism is saying society does not treat men and women the same, and that preferential treatment goes to men. This is further proven by the fact that child support often falls on the father rather than the mother, this is because the man makes more money than the woman on average. If she was making more than him, she would be responsible for child support.

[Asker]

Right, it is about choice at the end of the day as well. You are free to make your choices; however, you must be willing to deal with the outcomes of those choices. PLEASE, can you answer the original question?

[Anonymous]

Why do you need to ask this two days in a row? You are guilty of exactly what you're whining and complaining about by acting like your gender doesn't whine and complain about the same thing.

[Asker]

I wanted to redo it because of bad typing on my end. Men might make coments about not liking it; however, we still accept it at the end of the day. Still haven't gotten an actual answer.

[Anonymous]

So you made a post about whining and complaining by whining and complaining.

I hope you see the irony here.

[Asker]

No, I do see many women's inability to simply abswer a question.

[Asker]

Answer

[HelpfulWoman]

we always love such weird sexism

[Asker]

Still not an answer; again chivalry is sexist too, please give an answer.

[HelpfulWoman]

it not being an answer you particularly like doesn't equal not an answer. quit your own bitching before you get labelled a girl XD

[SweetDripp]

It doesn't seem you are accepting it 😂

[Asker]

Because I still haven't been given an answer; just a bunch of evasion and responses, typical.

[Anonymous]

Here for an internet cry?

[Asker]

No, serious question asked in good faith.