Girls, What do I do in this situation?

[Anonymous]

There’s a girl that I like and I think she kinda likes me, I have a kink that I’m secretive about and haven’t told her but she jokes around about other kinks and she mentioned one I like but I didn’t have the courage to admit it. Should I tell her what I’m into? We’re not in a relationship, not together officially, should I tell her?

[Abbycado]

If you two aren't even together yet don't bring it up.

[Asker]

But she’s joking around about them, I’m soo tempted lol l admit it and reveal them to her

[Abbycado]

Then go ahead. If my boyfriend would have done that before we even dated I would be wondering what is on his mind and what is he after really. Not dating material.

That said, if she jokes about kinks she may not mind. I was looking at it from a personal perspective.

[Asker]

Ughhh it’s soo tough being a guy 😐😐😐😐😐 fine I’ll suppress it and “wait”, *punches the wall* out of frustration

[Anonymous]

What kink

[Asker]

Can’t say you’ll judge me lol

[Opinion Owner]

I won’t. Anal?

[Asker]

It’s not anal lol, I can’t say it lol

[Opinion Owner]

What is it? U are anonymous