Girls, What should I do?

[Anonymous]

I'm just gonna get straight to the point.. there's this girl... we're really good for each other.. It's been days since we last spoke... we had a very little argument... I texted her and she hasn't replied yet.. I know she could be busy cause duhh she has her own life and I have mine.. so I thought to myself to give her some space.. but don't get me wrong.. she's always on my mind.. first thought in the morning and last thought before I go to bed... and even throughout the day I think about her.. how long should I wait before texting her tho... or should I follow my friend's advice and wait for her to text me? Pls help.. I really don't want to lose her... and I put in a lot of effort.. but sometimes my efforts can be a bit too crazy and overwhelming.. this girl is a blessing.. she inspires me.. I don't wanna lose her... pls help..

[MsTaniaUncensored]

You have volleyed the ball into her court now sir. It is great you are interested but she may not be. Maybe she does need time but constant messages come off poorly to anyone especially in early stages. You can only wait and see. Pushing only has that effect; it pushes people away.

[Anonymous]

Awww... Just message her, put any ego aside and message her, be a gentleman and fight for her... I'm sure she might be abit upset but I'm sure she will accept you, and if you have to apologize, do so, in the most heartfelt way... she'll come around don't worry. I think the reason why she hasn't replied is because she might be busy or taking a break from her inbox but is online... we woman do that... when we get into an argument with a guy we truly like.. we sometimes feel scared to check our messages because we feel that "what if i open it and he says something hurtful to me again?" So if you see her online she isn't ignoring you, she's just scared to open it since ya'lll been in an argument... so she will take her time and when she's in her best strength to open your message she will reply, you just have to be a little patient 😊... but do message her and show her who's the man!!

[Opinion Owner]

Remember she's your girl, do whatever it takes to show her how genuine your feelings is towards her... if you hve the confidence to tell her how you truly feel about her say it to her, because it will mean the world to her to hear those words from you, be open and have a genuine conversation with her, be sweet, kind and loving and never give up on someone you love... especially someone who inspires you, don't let any little argument get in the way of your relationship... a woman appreciates when a man tells with words and proves it with action on how he feels about her, trust me my friend she will love and turn her heart towards you again, to your surprise she will make you feel special and loved twice as much as before..

[Opinion Owner]

Its best to text her as soon as possible because the more you wait the more difficult and gap its going to create and in her mind she might think that you have moved on, but in order to save everything don't waste any time and message her right away... if you have to tell her that she's all you think about when you wake up and when you fall asleep tell her, don't hide your feelings even if its scary just go for it and you'll be happy with the outcome... I also was scared to tell my person how i feel and eventually i did and now we're happily together,... make sure you write a good wording sentence with your message to make it worth it... she will appreciate you for that... and it shows that you're willing to fight for someone that you love and she will reciprocate twice your efforts but most importantly pray to the Lord to touch her heart when she reads the messages you have to write to her, even if it has to be a long essay... hahahh do it!! GO FOR IT and all the best... ooh and don't forget, after you guys have reconciled and forgiven each other, don't bring up that issue again in future and move on happily and supportive of each other 🙌🏼❤

[Opinion Owner]

Continue putting in your efforts no matter how crazy and overwhelming it is... be straight forward without any ambiguity or duality of English with ur words... so she doesn't get confused and overthink about what you're trying to telll her

[Opinion Owner]

Cause i guess she's waiting on you to put in the effort as well

[sheikalana]

Wait for her to text you back but don't wait forever. I'd say up to one month if you don't get a text back from her then just move on.

[Asker]

Oof... I don't wanna move on though... I feel people give up too easily these days... :(.. and I ain't one to give up so easily... I'm very stubborn.. haha so is she... I'm also persistent..

[sheikalana]

OMG but you're so young is not like you don't have any other options and let me tell you her behavior is kinda passive aggressive which is actually a red flag. You both had a minor disagreement and this is how she reacts with the silent treatment instead of solving things like an adult? She's the one who gave up that easily. You're too good for her. Put yourself out there and find someone a bit more mature.

[Asker]

It isn't all her... I'm sure she was a bit tired of me.. I was very worried and afraid of losing her.. its like I constantly want to be in her life.. we both understand I'm messed up... I might have pushed her away by being so afraid of losing her... how do I fix this...

[sheikalana]

You're now showing an obsessive behavior. Give her space. Maybe she's not even interested in you and was just talking to you as a friend. Just because you think she's perfect for you doesn't mean she things the same or wants the same as you.

[kyleelyn199723]

I think you should follow your friends abuse and wait

[kyleelyn199723]

Advice not abuse lol sorry

[Asker]

Lol abuse hahaha but yeah.. I guess I'll wait.. but what if she's waiting for me to text her... x. x

[kyleelyn199723]

Lmao! Not sure why my phone auto corrected it to that

[Asker]

What if she's waiting to see if I'll put in the efforts... what if she's waiting for me to text her first...

[ладуна]

Let her text you. You're so sweet by the way