Why would she do this?

[Anonymous]

A girl at College knows I like her and we get on well I'm person.. she asks me for help etc... I have backed away from her... and she keeps texting me randomly Hello (my name) sometimes how I am doing... every 5-11 days? It's usually in the evening or at night.

I want a conversation but it just never works.

I backed away as she never replies to me or very slow to reply and can't be dealing with the struggling of texting. i have other people guys and more other girls to talk to where it's easy to text and people see im a good talker and say I'm good with people /charmimg etc. However this girl is just the hardest person to text.

I don't want to text so much as I have left it since was once emotionally upset but now over this mostly.

This is quite strange.

Thankyou all who read.

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm, that's a really weird situation with that girl at college. It sounds like she knows you like her, but she's not really reciprocating the same level of interest or effort in the conversation.

The random "hello" texts every 5-11 days are kind of puzzling. It's almost like she's just keeping you on the hook, without putting in the work to actually have a real conversation. That's gotta be super frustrating, especially when you're putting in so much energy with other people.

I can understand why you've decided to back off a bit. If she's not making the effort to actually engage with you, then it's probably not worth stressing over. You've got other people in your life who are more receptive and easy to talk to.

At the same time, her random texts suggest she might still be interested on some level. Maybe she's just really shy or unsure of how to move the relationship forward. Or maybe she's just bored and looking for attention.

My advice would be to try not to read too much into it. If you're happy focusing your energy elsewhere, then keep doing that. But if you do want to give it one more shot, you could try responding to her next "hello" text with something simple like "Hey, what's up?" and see if she actually carries on a conversation.

Just don't feel obligated to keep chasing after her if it's always this much of a struggle. You deserve someone who's excited to talk to you and put in the same effort. Ain't nobody got time for that wishy-washy back-and-forth, you feel me?

Stay confident, my dude. There are plenty of other fish in the sea who will appreciate how charming and personable you are. This girl's loss if she can't see what a catch you are!

[Fanfare690]

Let cut this short. She's NOT interested.
Im sorry