My girl wants me to sleep with other girls before her, is it normal?

[Anonymous]

My girl is a virgin and so am I. She wants me to have experience with some girls for a week before she starts dating me. She arranged with some of our mutual friends and she stopped talking to me pretending to be somehow not interested in me.
What does that mean? Is it bad or good?

[JSmith925]

No. This idea is ill-conceived. You should discover intimacy together. Besides, how can you begin a solid relationship by sleeping with somebody else?

[Asker]

Your question should be not by sleeping with someone else but "After" sleeping with someone else.

[HungTexan]

Take it as a gift and sleep with the other girls.

[jazzy34]

Is she bisexual or bi-curious? Otherwise, why would she want to experiment with other women?

[Asker]

She's not. She wants me to have experience first because apparently people told her that 2 virgins is a bad experience something like that.

[jazzy34]

Listening to what “people” say is worse. Sometimes “people” don’t know what they’re talking about. Re-evaluate your relationship with this woman.

[HelpfulWoman]

Thats so cringe and weird.
RED FLAG
Bet she'll then turn it onto you that you did it.

[Asker]

Did what? She's not yet dating me. It's a situationship

[HelpfulWoman]

even worse XD

[Asker]

Can you explain how and why?

[Anonymous]

So in 29 years you never had sex with other women but suddenly now you're supposed to go out and find that?

[Asker]

Yeah. I didn't... And neither did she because her parents were protecting her in her bubble. She's 30 and virgin. And so am I 29. But that's not a problem for me because I was busy with other stuff. I don't understand your point. I know men and women in their early 40s and never had it.

[Anonymous]

That's so un-normal this sounds made up because it's ridiculous.

[Asker]

Why? I think she wants me to have experience first. The girls she's pushing on me have boyfriends. But I'm not sure what this is about actually...

[OlderAndWiser]

Perhaps she is merely testing you. Beware!

[Asker]

Testing for what?

[OlderAndWiser]

Testing your devotion to her vs. willingness to have sex with other women.

[Asker]

She doesn't want to be involved.. she wants me to have experience first before her.

[OlderAndWiser]

Maybe.

That's what she says now, but you say, "okay, I'll go have sex with your friends," and you go to her friend's apartment planning to have sex, and the friend tells you, 'this was just a test to see if you really wanted to be faithful to her. . . and you failed. She never wants to see you again. . . and, no, you and I are not having sex!'

[Asker]

Yeah but she wants them in my place actually. So it's not a test of this sort because she's really sure I am serious. Now she is just ignoring me behaving in a way to make me think that it's bad between use and it's not cheating. My question is why a virgin girl be obsessed with my virginity as a male

[OlderAndWiser]

It doesn't matter. I'm telling you: if you fuck even one of her friends, this will get turned into you being unfaithful to her.