Why would a random women tell your side chick that "he has other women"?

[Vegasrunner]

Happened to a friend of mine recently and he almost lost his side chick.

[White_Widow]

Because we women try to protect each other and if we notice these things we feel every women deserves better than to be lied to.

[Vegasrunner]

@White_Widow How would interfering w/ someone's happiness protect them?

[White_Widow]

Because happiness doesn't come from lies

[Vegasrunner]

@White_Widow That's a crazy statement. What is the lie that you believe you've been told?

[White_Widow]

I never said I've been lied to. I said happiness doesn't come from lies. If a man dates multiple women and the women don't know that, that entails they are being lied to. They deserve to know the truth and if they are fine with it you have my blessings but they deserve to make a well informed decision.

[Vegasrunner]

@White_Widow TY for sharing this, as it's great to show men that women will actually invest time and energy in something they "feel"is true. Go read original post, nothing says the women doesn't know. You simply intpreted it thorough your feelings and are now attempt to pretend as if it's relevant to the original post. This is another example of women behaving emotionally.

[White_Widow]

The post says "why would a random woman tell you side chick that "he has other women"

That makes it open to the interpretation that the side chick doesn't know he has other women. Hence the answer.

[Vegasrunner]

@White_Widow It does leace it open to intpretation, my question is why is your specific intpretation that he has lied to her? Did you ever consider the random girl told the other girl to validate the guys value?

[White_Widow]

We women don't value men on how many women he is dating. In fact the more women a man is dating the less worth he becomes.

And I did provide an answer as to if the guy has been honest about the situation. If the side chick still wants to be the side chick thats fine by me lol

[Vegasrunner]

@White_Widow Actually you do, it's just that women don't recognize what it takes to be attractive to women AS A MAN therefore they internalize and make the mistake of believing that what they want is what all women want. I think it's interesting that you believe your feeling need to be satisfied in order for the action to be correct. Whether it's fine or not fine by you is irrelevant to the question. Your original answer was about "protecting" what makes you believe random strangers want your interference in their personal lives?

[White_Widow]

But if the side chick knows the guy she is seeing has multiple women and she is ok with that and would come along and I were to tell her "hey do you know that the guy your seeing that your not the only women he is seeing?" And she would say " yeah I know and I don't care" I would say " ok cool" and she wouldn't be less happy about the situation one bit. So how did I interfere with her happiness? She isn't less happy. She would only be less happy if she didn't know and found out she is being lied to. Don't talk to me about my "feelings", you don't know anything about me. I don't want what others have, thats an assumption you are making. I also said all women have the right to make a well informed decision but she does need all the information to do so. i wouldn't tell anyone what to do, I merely gave her information and if that information makes her change her mind thats not my fault lol

[Vegasrunner]

@White_Widow Its so interesting that you're adamant that you must say something. Have you ever considered that you have no right to bring any of this information up to a stranger?

[White_Widow]

I am perfectly in my right to talk to a stranger. Its called freedom of speech. Its interesting that you worry about the fact if something to that accord is being discussed between the women. When there is "by your saying" nothing going on or nothing to worry about. So what would it matter if I did say something?

[Vegasrunner]

@White_Widow So you're saying you're ok if a man comes up and approaches you by yourself in a dark alley?

[White_Widow]

Its happened plenty of times. Doesn't matter what I think, he is free to do so. But nowhere is stated that I would approach a woman in a dark alley lol so how is that relevant? Or don't you have any other arguments to fall back on that have to do with the subject?

[Vegasrunner]

@White_Widow I asked if you were ok w/ it not if it happened. Why would you approaching a woman in a dark alley? You're not a man.

[White_Widow]

Please read my last reply again. And please return to the subject if you have more arguments otherwise let it go.

[Vegasrunner]

@White_Widow I have read all your reply. They are incongruent at best. The original post is why would a random chick talk to a stranger about their personal life. You then created a new scenario and are attempting to pretend that it is the original topic.

[White_Widow]

How did I create a new scenario? I didn't. You first made assumptions about MY feelings. Then you asked me what gives me the right to bring this information to a stranger. And NOWHERE in the original post it says "why would a RANDOM chick talk to a STRANGER about their personal life" and by using common sense, if I know she is a side chick, I know her guy or her, otherwise I wouldn't have that information and thus she isn't a stranger or I wouldn't know. And you still haven't brought any new arguments to this debate. So this ends now lol

[Vegasrunner]

@White_Widow I think I see your confusion. Your original comment was about lies eventhough nothing in the post mentioned lying. You then go on to claim you're perfectly within your right to talk to strangers (which is weird) You have done an excellent job however proving my point that women are to emotional to allow the truth to get in the way. TY for sharing. GL to you.

[jazzy34]

Maybe to warn her and to let her know she’s not special.

[Vegasrunner]

@jazzy34 What would make her think she has the right to do that?

[jazzy34]

Again, to warn her and to let her know she’s not special. Plus, the man is already cheating anyway so why not spill the beans?

[Vegasrunner]

@jazzy34 Why do women need to tell other women they're not special?

[jazzy34]

You’re missing the point entirely. Of course the woman is special, just not to that man. To him, she’s just another “side piece.” She deserves better than a cheater. Anyway, the fact that you don’t seemed bothered by the man cheating on his wife with multiple women boggles my mind. It makes me inclined to think that it’s actually YOU, not a “friend of yours.” Go back to your wife, dude.

[Vegasrunner]

@jazzy34 Why is she special? And how could she get better than a guy who's value is so high that he has multiple women? How is he "cheating" if he's taking care of his women?

[White_Widow]

If his value is sooo high why can't he be honest about what he is doing? @Vegasrunner?

[Vegasrunner]

@White_Widow What makes you believe he's not being honest?

[KITEinStorm]

pure comedy :-)

[Iron_Man]

she wants to get you busted