What do you think about this post about women being over sexualised?

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Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

I agree that nobody should be looked at as a object but unfortunately there is certain types of women who equally contribute to this problem. There are women who use their body as a means to get attention which makes certain types of men to think it’s okay to treat women like this in general.

Another thing about these types of women is that they want to solicit attention from a certain type of men but when it’s only the men they don’t want giving it to them they become angry about that.

There is also women who use men. They use men for money, sex, emotional support, social status, and a multitude of other things. But then complain that they don’t want to be a sex object it’s one sided.

Not all men look at women that way and they just simply leave the women alone who have nothing but their body to contribute. A man who has standards wants someone who contributed and enriches his life as well so these women most of the time don’t get the men they want.

On one extreme they get the players and fuckboys on the other extreme they get the turds, creeps, losers, etc. So just forget about them I do feel bad when decent men get involved and become miserable.

I do agree people shouldn’t be double minded. They shouldn’t be whoring around with tons of men then complaining they got used for sex. They shouldn’t be doing onlyfans and complaining they are seen as sex objects and complaining about creeps when that’s exactly their target audience. Creepy dudes who can’t get any real life action…. Both old creeps as well as dudes smoking pot in moms basement refusing to work a job.

Not all women are like that the women who are like that and act like they represent all women. Make women look bad…. They use it as a means to make you look bad so they look better. If I call you a sexist (even if she’s projecting who she is) then they think people will side with them so they don’t look like a sexist.

Reality is that they are meaner to other women and back stab other women more then they do men. If you think they hurt men (which they do) they not only make women look bad bt acting like all women are like they are. They also attack and stab women in the back. Constantly.

xkildy · Accepted Answer

Well its true, Lust is powerful and very hard to get past. All the people with por... n.. addictions are the people who spend lots of money on girls to listen to them (with money) So this guys say do this guy this way or do it with a toy or wear this. One girl said that's the only way to make money now. Since everyone of those paying people have (desensitized) There frontal lobe with dopamine, Meaning They don't get the desire from just seeing T and A anymore Don't get the pleasure from just watching a (Don't cum in me scene) It's all fake anyway you know for a fact that maybe 1 out of 100 girls was actually done that way. We pay actually actors to lie publicly on camera for a living your telling me. She can't pretend she's upset with him for doing that. If money was not so easy to get for them girls they would not be doing it. They know for a fast that 100k a year and all I have to do is sell my soul on camera easy. Why work a 9-5 have to wear clothes and go out in to the world. Ride a train to save gas or drive 30 mins wait in traffic get to the office and then. yeah that sounds fun compared to getting pleasured all day then getting paid. Right, life is rough but make the right choice for you. A choice that will make your kids happy when they find out their mom is the most watched (star) of all time.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Here's the Catch22. Guys wouldn't be using apps like only fans (or even tinder) if gals didn't put themselves on those apps to begin with. It's not a matter of women "BEING" over sexualized, but of women over sexualizing themselves. The same idiots claiming to be modern-day feminists most likely... claiming that this sort of thing "EMPOWERS" them when really it just confuses men and women into thinking that this is all that women are worth.

Get a clue...

Apple1996 · Accepted Answer

That's crazy coming from chloe roma when she's litterally made porn before. The vid of her sucking off the guy in the shower is ingrained in my brain lol

And big disagree those women are taking advantage of their power over men by sexualizing themselves. It was only cool to men before because women were doing it against their will and not having fun doing it. Now women are having fun and happily doing it

Cormac995 · Answer

It doesn't matter if someone is over sexualized or not because that's going to happen anyways, and it always has for one simple reason. Monkey horny. Sex sells it always has it always will and people will always sexualize just about anything so obviously woman. in my opinion that's fine too but only if you go the true gender equality route which means you start sexualizing men too. Baulders gate did it right. Thirst traps for everyone not just one demographic.

You're never going to stop sexualization so the best thing to do is level the playing field in media etc.

glennos89 · Answer

Personally I like classy woman that are dressed appropriately. She can still dress sexy if she wants but in a classy way.

These days I notice a lot of woman dressing themselves with very little clothes on. Some of them look more like hookers the the real ones do.

I think some woman are partly to blame because of their own ways of dressing like a slut. Guys will give you the wrong type of attention if you dress like a slut. Not saying that it's right for aan to do so but it happens

Kaneki05 · Answer

She's wrong women have sexualised themselves forever, sexwork didn't just appear when onlyfans came out lol.
But this don't matter it's always a two way street, you can't have a customer without a supplier.
Also the past was way worse, many things that are normal for girls today would be back then literally reasons for them to kill you or ya know.. just ask the middle east. It ain't perfect but women are vastly better position today.

LeatherDame · Answer

I’m constantly sexualized and I don’t sell nudes, so the argument is pretty invalid since it’s only a tiny minority of us doing that. It would be like saying men are all incels because some men are incels.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I disagree, I have no problem with it when it just solo stuff. It is just women giving men what they want. Supply and demand. If you don't like OF, take it up with all the men that pay for it.

Anonymous · Answer

I saw this on Facebook earlier. And I'll post the same reaction I had to it then.

"Kind of ironic isn't it. The girl posing for a pic with her shirt off says, "I'm tired of being looked at as a set of holes"🤦‍♂️😂

Chloe is right I'm afraid. I still blame men for taking the bait. But Chloe is right.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Chloe makes a good point, although men are also at fault for feeding into all this stuff they both have a role that leads to these results, there's also a saying that says other women keep women single, this kinda reminded me of this saying.

MrChinaski · Answer

Go and spend some time doing a university degree, another 3-5 years getting experience in your trade, do some volunteer work, play some sports, develop some hobbies. I almost guarantee you will stumble upon the perfect man.

dustybiker2 · Answer

Taking control of the presentation takes the power away from the men. That was the comments when only fans started.

AnonAndrew · Answer

It's both sexes that are doing it. Blaming one sex and claiming the other sex is just responding is ridiculous. This goes both ways.

MemeSupreme · Answer

i mean to an extent bc the internet is so accessible but there's way more men that sexualize us than women who do porn

HusamRocks · Answer

Women unintentionally agreed to it falling in men traps again 👍🏻

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Kind of agree with her. With the onlyfans and whatnot. But in the end it's still guys. They need guys sexualizing them to get some traffic.

Flower7 · Answer

I disagree. This would still be happening even if Only Fans didn’t exist.

jahaims · Answer

Too many people have no value other then sex so that is what they use for currency

Anonymous · Answer

She's obviously right. Questions like this, and the responses from many females, showcase the dishonesty and victim mindset of today's women.

Wise4myage · Answer

I agree with her, and I think advertising has a lot to do with it.

Anonymous · Answer

I think she’s being way too harsh. Only a small minority of women create content on OnlyFans.

thinkerx · Answer

Media internet movies tell people especially Man  Source of hapiness iş sex and sexuality

Anonymous · Answer

Women have always been looked at in this manner and always will be.

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Well, then stop dressing in a way that makes people view you that way. Pretty simple.

ImalwaysrightOK · Answer

Chloe is right.

seeyounexttuesday · Answer

Chloe22 is 100% correct.

MasterKS · Answer

Many times women even dont mind to claim that.

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