Why do I attract strange men?

[Puppystarfish23]

I'm very happily married to a good man but it wasn't easy finding him. Before meeting him I rarely got dates and the only people who would ask me out were freaks. The only decent guy I dated before my husband was a Jehovah witness in high-school and for obvious reasons it didn't last.

Being married doesn't stop men either and some even see it as a challenge. I always get the odd bod, fuck boyz or dirty old men asking me out besides being told I'm pretty by people.

It seems to be a generational curse as all the women in my family has delt with this before. My sister had a man in his late 30s wearing a cheeto tracksuit give her his number. She told him she has a boyfriend but he begged her and told her he can't sleep at night because he can't stop thinking about her and desires and admirers her.

I told her she needs to learn to be a bitch because its the only method that's worked for me. If your nice they think they can wear you down eventually..

Whenever we tell others about this they think we think everyone fancies us and were delusional but this happen to one of us at least twice a year we gain a creepy stalker kind of guy. They usually end up losing there job for sexual harassment or someone else will step in and scare them off

[ColHathi]

You sure it's not just a general thing that women have to deal with these days? Seems like there's been a culture in the past of men approaching and asking women out, and that's just what was expected, but now it's probably evolved a bit to where men have either learned that that method is antiquated or that women doesn't like it (generally speaking), or they have grown bitter and spiteful, which only leaves people like the men that you described that doesn't care and keeps approaching women in these super weird and disconnected ways? 🤔

I dunno for sure if that's how it is ofc. Just a guess ^^ Either way it sucks. It's a shitty situation for both genders. Nobody gets what they want.

[jahaims]

Getting hit on happens to a lot of women. The stupid/crazy guys who don't know or follow social and cultural etiquette are likely to approach women

[Valdemort]

Probably the ones out there for a reason. :')

[Paige90]

Because you have a hole!

[Bklynbadboy12]

So what are you doing to attract them