I noticed I've recently attracted men who turn out to be crazy, why do I attract this? I think I am sweet, nice and a good listener, what am I doing?

[Anonymous]

I am in a corporate position and am single and have been going on dating apps like bumble or hinge, but recently I attracted a guy who said his ex tried to kill him and his ex before him tried to get him fired from his job. I dont know what signals I am putting out there to attract men like this, please help me. Thank you!

[kylee2437]

Maybe possibly nothing. A lot of potentially abusive men will test waters and say stuff like that to see if you will buy into that kind of stuff and if you do, that’s when it begins. A person shouldn’t be unloading that quickly. It shows that he lacks accountability and potentially was the issue in his past relationships. Trust me on this, you are probably not the only one he’s unloading to in terms of women. He probably unloads and sees which woman is going to buy into it

[Stevefiveo]

Some people just have that kind of luck. My wife says that if she is crazy and has big tits then she is going to come straight up to me and start talking to me. I guess I just have that face.

[Anonymous]

It's the type of men you choose. You won't want to hear it. But you're attracted to these types of guys.