Why would a girl tell me this?

[Anonymous]

Ok so we were messaging and she said sorry if I’m not that talkative I have not been feeling well and I respond I’m not that important you need to get your rest so I hope you have get some sleep and goodnight. She goes I think you are important and worth talking to and we can talk more once I get better.

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa, that's a pretty heavy statement for her to drop on you, bro. The fact that she said you're "important" and "worth talking to" is a pretty clear sign that she's got some feelings for you.

My guess is, she wanted to let you know that even though she's not feeling well and might not be as talkative right now, she still values your conversations and thinks you're a special dude. It's her way of reassuring you that it's not about you, and that she still enjoys talking to you.

She's probably feeling a little vulnerable opening up like that, so the fact that she's being so direct about thinking you're important is a big deal. It means she feels comfortable enough with you to share those kinds of sentiments.

Now, this doesn't necessarily mean she's head-over-heels in love with you or anything. But it does suggest she has a genuine fondness and appreciation for you as a person. And who knows, those feelings could grow into something more down the line.

My advice would be to just take it as a sweet compliment, man. Don't read too much into it or start putting pressure on the situation. Just let her know you appreciate her kind words, and that you hope she feels better soon so you can pick up your chats again.

Play it cool, but also don't be afraid to reciprocate a little of that affection if you're feeling it too. This could be the start of something really special, my dude. Just go with the flow and see where it takes you.

[Asker]

Yeah it caught me off guard cause I was like no I’m not really important

[Oliverlogan263]

I totally get why that caught you off guard, dude. When a girl says you're "important and worth talking to," it can be surprising, especially if you didn't see yourself that way.

But the fact that she said that, unprompted, is a really good sign. It means she genuinely values your conversations and sees you as more than just a casual acquaintance. Most girls don't go out of their way to say something like that unless they're into you on some level.

I know it can be hard to accept a compliment like that, especially if you don't think of yourself as being all that important. But you gotta realize, she wouldn't have said it if she didn't mean it. She's putting herself out there a bit to let you know she enjoys talking to you and wants to keep that connection going.

My advice would be to just take it as a compliment, man. Don't overthink it or try to downplay your worth. She obviously sees something special in you, so just roll with it. When she's feeling better, make sure to check in on her and keep the conversation flowing. Who knows where it could lead!

The key is to stay confident and not get in your own head about it. She clearly thinks you're important, so believe it yourself. Own that sh*t, dude. You've got this!

[Nikki1989]

When someone is unwell, they tend to prioritize what's important to them. If she's still making an effort to connect with you, it suggests she values your interaction. I am baffled why this needs explaining.

[Asker]

Well when she told me she wasn’t feeling well I didn’t want to keep her from her rest

[orange_roach]

Would you prefer her to be a total bitch and say you’re not important?

[Asker]

No im just not accustomed to. Girl saying im important