Girls, Are guys ever weird about you being curvy (big boobs and big butt)? How do they act?

[Hghhhhhhhhhh]

I honestly think guys make a lot of assumptions about women based on the physical appearance of our bodies. Which ones have you experienced personally?

[Valdemort]

The only assumptions I've had based on my body (from men and women equally) is that it leads to a lot of attention, which isn't the case lmfao.

[Hghhhhhhhhhh]

Me too honestly. It’s weird bc I don’t consider myself to be conventionally attractive and honestly don’t receive a lot of attention from guys, but many people (men and women both) can’t look past my chest circumference long enough to see that. Guys in particular tend to assume that I am a highly sexual person just based on the way my body looks (full hourglass), but that makes zero sense to me. The idea that you can tell what kind of sex life someone has just by looking at them is nuts tbh, but it’s an idea many people hold on to. What do they say to you exactly if you’re comfortable sharing? Like I know what you’re talking about it’s just hard for me to remember specific comments

[chocolatetwopointo]

guys are always like that, even if ur flat. men js want womens bodies.

[Hghhhhhhhhhh]

That’s not what I meant. It’s not hard for me to believe that men sexualize women of all body types in an inappropriate way, but there is a specific type of treatment reserved for well endowed women. Guys will take one look at my busy size and assume that I’m a sex fiend regardless of what I wear and how I act. I don’t have the experience of a flat woman, but I’m fairly confident we’re not receiving the same treatment

[chocolatetwopointo]

ah yes, but yeah busty women usually get it worse

[Hghhhhhhhhhh]

Yeah :/

Is there a specific treatment reserved for flat women? I know my experience but im not really sure what other women go through

[chocolatetwopointo]

nah not other than the comments about being flat and creeps who say ”id still do u even tho ur flat”

[Hghhhhhhhhhh]

Okay that’s just rude of them. Why do people feel the need to comment on other peoples breast size? I don’t understand…

[chocolatetwopointo]

men fr

[Abbycado]

I don’t have to worry about this. XD

[Hghhhhhhhhhh]

lol fair. I don't know what you look like, but do people make assumptions about you based on what your body looks like at all? Like guys I barely know tend to think that I have a high sex drive or will be easy to sleep with despite neither being true, and I don’t think they would believe that if I had smaller breasts. Do more slender women also deal with some version of this, or are you perceived as a blank slate until the guy knows you better? TLDR I would like to hear your experience

[Abbycado]

Yeah, so, lol…I don’t have much of an issue attracting attention. I just don’t have the usual girl assets.

Okay, my butt is alright but not like what you posted. Not a juicy booty XD

If it helps form an idea, I’m fit, no boobs, no big butt. I got a boyfriend first week at school. Still with him since last fall. Not sure that’s the answer you’re looking for

[Hghhhhhhhhhh]

It is! You just confirmed what I was already starting to suspect, which is that “girl assets” (love that wording lol) don’t have nearly as much of an impact on the attention you get from guys as most of us have been lead to believe. I think they might honestly have the opposite effect in some cases. A lot of guys like fit so it makes sense that you would be popular. I usually didn’t have a boyfriend back in school, but when I got one it usually wasn’t until the pretty girls were already taken and the options were more limited. What is your secret to attracting guys by the way? Do you approach them in a specific way or do they just come to you on their own?

I don't know what I posted, but my butt is probably on the larger end of average, it’s honestly hard for me to tell how big it is lol. I guess my butt is alright too if that’s how we’re gonna describe it lol

[Abbycado]

Hey, Rick what ya got! I don’t put down the girls that flaunt what they have. It’s not a competition but finding a guy that likes you for who you are, right?

Physically, emotionally….. etc

[Abbycado]

You seem like a good person and deserve a great guy.

[Hghhhhhhhhhh]

Thank you! That’s very kind! I guess I need to work on my confidence lol. I think you’re right

[Abbycado]

I’m sure you’re stunning 😍

[Hghhhhhhhhhh]

Ur so kind 😄 thank you for this

[Sirenboobzilla]

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