(Mostly asking other girls) Do your girl friends act flirty with you?

[EllyVick]

I have a couple of girlfriends who are affectionate, giving compliments and being all warm, like leaving hearts after every message and with each other, they are putting their hands on each other's thighs as a joke. And they also act warm with me. This got me thinking because my other even closer friends are literally nothing like that. And I have a suspicion that my two friends might be lesbian. Or is this normal and I'm just reading into this too much? God this is weird to be writing about this...

[SueShe]

No, none of my friends act in a flirting way because I have told them that I do not tolerate such nonsense.

To me, flirting is a way to try to get into the pants of another person. The definition of the word "flirting" is:

"a sexual behavior involving spoken or written communication, as well as body language, by one person to another, to suggest interest in a deeper relationship with the other person".

Now, we all know what is meant under "deeper relationship". This is something I don not accept because flirting also involves dirty talking, innuendo and/or sentences with double, usually sexual, meanings.

If anyone tries to flirt with me, I simply leave the conversation or the meeting.

[Abbycado]

But, but….. butt…. booty?

[SueShe]

@Abbycado You don't get me going 🤔

[Abbycado]

Likely for the best. I wouldn't know what to do if I did. I think I'd have an incredibly disappointed (or perhaps not, who knows) boyfriend. XD

[SueShe]

@Abbycado 🤔 I have to have a serious word with him. Let him contact me, there are a few things he must know that you "forgot" to tell him 😒

[Valdemort]

The majority, yes. I'm not much for physical touch, but there's a few people I don't mind the banter with.

My sparring partner and I were honestly practically dry humping one another at training tonight. Lmfao. Punching below the belt, touching boobs & butts, what not. We're friends, we're comfortable, and even if people think we're dating—so it be, we don't care. Lol

[lilBigPotato]

Some are like that but don't really see it as flirting

[EllyVick]

Yeah, which is why their behaviour confuses me

[Nikki1989]

All my friends are like that, not just my girlfriends.

[Anonymous]

You're reading too much into that