Will you stay with her?

[Anonymous]

if you met a girl online and you really really liked her personaliy , she sent you pictures and you loved her looks, but when you met in real life you noticed that from the side her nose is long and you didn't like it, will still choose to stay with her?

[BarryLiverstone]

Like how long of a nose? I’m trying to imagine the length and can she get away with a Halloween costume no mask..


Probably would stay if she’s attractive.

[Asker]

almost 6 cm from the bridge the the tip

[BarryLiverstone]

I’m not a nose expert but that doesn’t seem very long. Have you been told that it’s freaky? Or is it just an insecurity

[BarryLiverstone]

but to be fair, you said I meet her and don’t like her nose. In that case seems hard to still feel a vibe

[Asker]

i've never been told that it's freaky but i got some few comments while growing up, i take care of my self, i workout my skin is soft and healthy, i have some dark circles that i can do nothing about due to genetics, also my chin goes very well with my nose , i have a nice and wide jaw line , but my nose , is affacting my self confidence no matter how hard i try

[BarryLiverstone]

Sounds like it’s more of an insecurity than anything else. You have never been told so either everyone is lying or you are overthinking it. Comments growing up we all get as bullies and kids are mean.

Now the question is do you actively think or worry about this meeting someone or on a date?

[Asker]

i really didn't use to think like that on a date, but this time its diffrent, we are from diffrent countries and i've never been is a such relationship , we match in personality , there's harmony between us, we can have really deep conversations for hours, he means a lot to me, that's why im worried this time , and that's why i posted my question

[BarryLiverstone]

Ty for explaining why you posted. Are you planning to meet soon? Having deep convos can be addicting but it’s hard to get too deep without seeing him irl

[Asker]

of course we will meet , i dont know when but we will

[BarryLiverstone]

That’s good. Only ask if you plan to meet soon because I hear of people who “date” online and go years without meeting irl.

[Asker]

years omg... too much

[BarryLiverstone]

Right. So in your case, are you planning to meet by June?

[Asker]

it sucks , no one chooses their features or bodies

[BarryLiverstone]

That’s true. I don’t like being skinny but it is what it is

[Asker]

probably we will meet this summer

[BarryLiverstone]

Well that’s my point. Probably the summer could slip to this fall. Before you know it it’s been a year ;)

[Asker]

beingskinny is also my struggle, working out is the only solution to put some weight and gain muscle mass

[BarryLiverstone]

Ya that’s the challenge. Been in the gym as well

[BarryLiverstone]

All we have control of is our health. If we have features on our bodies, God put them there for a reason

[Asker]

yes he did, its just that no matter what we do , there are some insecurities we always fail to get over

[BarryLiverstone]

So in this case, you can try to face time with the guy. It’s ok to go sideways with your face and see what he has to say. Or have you have vid chatted?

[Asker]

yup, thats what i was thnking about , i just needed to know someones opinion about this

[BarryLiverstone]

Well you got mine. It’s 4:25 am on a Wednesday so at least you understand that opinion is sleep deprived

[Asker]

😅 thank you anyways

[BarryLiverstone]

You are welcome. Took 45 min to answer , hope it helps

[Asker]

🙏🙏

[Avicenna]

That's wouldn't faze me one bit, so yes, definitely

[In_Trance]

I'd have to see it first

[strateguy632]

I would stay.