She's absolutely perfect at a glance but once you have her stay with you, it's a different story. What would you do?

[Sour-rose]

So hear me out. A girl is absolutely beautiful, very sweet and definitely got brains. But as soon as you get her home and tell her to "make herself at home" she does. But the thing is when you come back with drinks, her beautiful hair was a wig, her leg was a prosthetic, she has a scar over her eye you couldn't see behind makeup and she takes off her jacket to see she has a tattoo that says "I'm ready, God." You ask her what is this and she just says "this? Well it's very simple. Hell loved me more than god himself. And it tries to call me back every year." Still think she's a dream? Someone you want to live with for the rest of your life?

[Alex8736]

Sounds like someone who survived cancer and the chemotherapy is the reason for the wig or she might also be diabetic and due to complications can possibly be the reason for the amputation. The tattoo kind of gives a message that she beat the odds when it came to death. If you are dating her and she is very self reliant and can take care of herself along with a positive attitude I personally wouldn't hold anything against her where she is confident and not looking for a pity party. Just my own opinion

[MCheetah]

That is some brilliant mental gymnastics optimism there. You must be able to see the bright side in any situation.

[Alex8736]

It's always good to keep an open mind and not be so quick to judge which unfortunately there are a lot of shallow people in the world

[MCheetah]

I wouldn't even call this situation being shallow, though. She would've straight-up lied/conned a guy, if she had that much glamour on. But I see your point of being open-minded.

[Alex8736]

After years of internships in the courts I would observe body language (especially the judge) who would keep his head down and listen to the facts from both parties which I always advised people if they had a trial pending to request a bench trial where jurors lie about prejudices which I have seen on many occasions get wrongly convicted. People are so quick to pre judge before any facts are even presented

[MCheetah]

People are so quick to pre judge because society is often judgmental. But I agree with you. Part of my personal growth is learning to be more patient with people and not jump to conclusions so easily.

[Alex8736]

But there will be people who tend to raise red flags which can be innocently explained but I always set boundaries

[MCheetah]

That's why I wait before catching feelings for someone. It's almost always "too good to be true." But I can live in the moment, before reality comes crashing in. I learned how, after so many disappointments involving females.

Either way, if her personality was still platinum-level, I wouldn't care about her physical deformities. If she's at least got natural, big t*ts, I'd still smash like The Hulk!

[petitedollbabee]

Sounds like she’s had an interesting life, I’d be keen to get to know her better.

[Jennz6]

Sounds as if you like her, so give her a chance, that’s what I would do…

[lightbulb27]

haha. most people aren't want they represent. physical changes, emotional is often masked and takes discovery.

love and desire can go down the drain very quickly...

It's a human being. I might have more empathy for her after all that. the drinks would go down the drain... where they belong.

[JBlade]

I’d find the situation mildly amusing but would not be interesting in pursuing anything further. We could hangout and talk a bit though I guess.

[Havthrills]

Nope. Sounds like she was faking to get to my home. Lol.

[NathanDavis]

so her eyes are absolutely beautiful and still real... right?

and then a cool scar on it... I'm game, lol

[Sour-rose]

Lol of course, her eyes are real as can be. May have lose half of her leg but everything else is all born with :D

[NathanDavis]

and then there's all kinds of different amazing wigs out there

could even go with Elsa hairdo one day... lol

[RavVid]

Oh no! It doesn't get much worse. This where rohypnol comes in - spike her drink so she blacks out till the morning.

[boobliker]

the three Fs.

[EaterPeter]

Depends.

[Anonymous]

not sure tbh