I went to visit him and I found shampoo and conditioner, but he’s bald with stubble. is this necessarily bad?

[Anonymous]

I didn’t bring it up because I was staying at his place but I was just wondering he wants me to go see him again but I’m starting to question. I didn’t bring it up yet, but I don’t know if I should because technically we aren’t together, we don’t even know what we both are

[dreamstar72]

What about family members like mother, sister, aunt, company, you? Why is female shampoo only females. I couldn’t care less what type of shampoo I use just as long as it does the job.

[bralesswonder]

Maybe he bought them for you knowing you would be staying over at his place

[Asker]

It look like it had a bit of residue on it

[bralesswonder]

Ewww

[AI Opinion]

Finding shampoo and conditioner at his place might not necessarily be a bad sign. Some people use these products for beard care or skin conditioning, even if they don't have much hair. Others might keep them for guests. Since you’re not officially together yet, it’s best to communicate openly and clarify your relationship when you feel ready. 🌟

[In_Trance]

So rather than jumping to conclusions if a shampoo bottle is that big of deal why not have a conversation with him?

[Stevepro68]

I am not sure any kids involved?

[Asker]

No kids. They don’t live with him because they live at a distance.

[Stevepro68]

Well when I got divorced there was my ex crap all over my house that it took me years to get rid of. My upstairs bathroom has at least 20 boxes of women's hair dye shoved in the back of that linen closet for a year or more. If someone dating me found that it would have looked suspicious. Could be he's not a throw away guy.

[Asker]

It just seems suspicious. As if someone was just there or if he’s actually holding on to that stuff because she was there or maybe he hasn’t put thought to it or maybe he’s keeping it there for when she comes back 🤷🏽‍♀️

[Asker]

I didn’t bring it up because I was at his place and would have been awkward. That’s all I found because it was right there in the shower. I didn’t go searching for anything else. I just wanted to get out of that bathroom so I wouldn’t see anything else that would make me feel uneasy.

[Stevepro68]

Sure but to use your phrase not necessarily bad. But you are concerned so it is a topic you both need to address better.

[Asker]

I’m actually supposed to go see him again. I booked my flight, but I don’t know I’m rethinking it. I mean it’s nothing wrong of me right? it was right there in the shower. And then what if I go there and then it’s not there anymore what would you think of that?

[Danny_dan92]

Female shampoo?

[Asker]

Yes for long hair.

[Danny_dan92]

Either he had a relative over. Or he’s cheating

[Asker]

All the while the other girl has no clue… what a player

[Danny_dan92]

I’m confused