Why do women always get attached after a one night stand?

[Vegasrunner]

[Anonymous]

Not just women, some men too, especially if she's hot.

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you for the Superb Opinion

[Vegasrunner]

@anonymous The site must automatically dp that. I thought u made a useless statement.

[Opinion Owner]

Well, the site knows better ;)

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Agreed, the site does prioritize slanted views designed to cater to femal behavior. Deflecting from a topic by saying "it's both" is one of the more common metrics.

[Opinion Owner]

Ironic, right, and I actually never had a relationship... no girl ever wanted me.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner That's not surprising, yet you still felt to weigh in on an experience you know nothing about?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, and as you can see, I got Superb Opinion, without any experience on the subject, lol.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner. Yes, that my point.

[Opinion Owner]

Good point 👍

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner Thanks. Have you ever considered that your mentality is what has kept you so unsuccessful with women?

[Opinion Owner]

I think it's my shyness and lack of self-confidence.
Plus the fact I'm not rich and/or handsome.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner You're lack of self confidence is a by product of your mindset. Regarding a subject you know nothing about, you decided to weigh in w/ an opinion designed to kiss women's ass. Did you every think that if you stopped doing that you would have more success with women?

[Opinion Owner]

So you think I would have more success if I was impolite to women?

[Vegasrunner]

@ Opinion Owner No, I believe you would have more success if you didn't put them on a pedestal. Your response shows how much you do. Nowhere in my statements did I mention anything about being "impolite" to women, however you're interpreted not kissing their ass as being impolite. There in lies your problem.

[Opinion Owner]

Ok, but I like dominant girls, I think they like to be on pedestal.
Maybe you know something more, perhaps they like something else?

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner Kind of irrelevant what you like when as you claim you haven't had success with any women?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, I never had success with any women, but I have my preferences.
I wouldn't even try if it's not my type of girl.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner How is that relevant when you haven't been able to get any women?

[Opinion Owner]

It's relevant because I stick to my preferences, I'm not desperate.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner Preferences? You said no girl ever wanted you.

[Opinion Owner]

True, but I also said I'm not desperate. I won't settle for some girl I don't like.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner Perhaps, but the reason you're inexperienced is because the girls you want don't want you.

[Opinion Owner]

I know, that's pure logic.
Unfortunately, some girls I don't want actually want me.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner How does that help you?

[Opinion Owner]

It doesn't help me at all. Do you have any advice?

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner All the advice in the world not going to help you if u refuse to listen to it. If you have girls that want you, why don't you just practice on them, to get your experience up?

[Opinion Owner]

Because I'm not attracted to them. It wouldn't be fair to them if I would pretend to like them.

[OneViewpoint]

Women always get attached after a one night stand? Not in my experience. Oh, sometimes they're into the guy. That's why they slept with him.

But doing the walk of shame at 2AM or 8AM can really take the shine off that new toy for a lot of women. Humiliation and shame has them running away. Why they feel humiliated or ashamed I don't know, but some do.

Some don't feel any of that and just want to satisfy an urge when their hormones are raging once a month. But they aren't looking for a boyfriend.

Some are married or in a relationship and want no further contact after they have their side piece on a business trip.

But yeah, some will instantly cling on instantly and there will be ensuing drama. Guys do the same thing.

[Vegasrunner]

@OneViewpoint Nah, less likely for men, because we've achieved our goal after having sex.

[OneViewpoint]

Not all guys. I've seen needy guys read all sorts of meaning into a one night stand. Just like some women.

[Vampirelover_12]

Because female sexuality is looked down upon.

[OneViewpoint]

@Vampirelover_12 ,

Not by all men. Just the insecure immature boys.

[Vampirelover_12]

It's society, not men as an individual.

[TrimmedTip]

Women don’t always get attached—but when they do, it’s often because:

Biology – Oxytocin (the ‘bonding hormone’) spikes after sex, especially for women.
Social Conditioning – Many are raised to equate sex with emotional intimacy, even casually.
Mixed Signals – If the ONS included cuddling/deep convos, it’s easy to misread as potential for more.
But let’s be clear: Plenty of women enjoy no-strings sex too. Attachment isn’t gendered—it’s individual.

[AMS700CX4u2]

Social Sex is one thing because no one has any expectations of foreverness. But when the right person comes along and the pieces fit, women do not want to let go. It becomes more spiritual after that. One reason why a cheat can be devastating because it has gone beyond social

[RavVid]

Women release 10 times the amount of love hormone than men do.

Good evolutionary reasons for this. No birth control and no marriage laws back in One Million BC. So women had to bond with the man when she fucked whilst men just had to have a smaller love hit to come back for more.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

read my mytake, I promise you will find all the answers you need.

Why The Hookup Culture Is A Trap For Men

warning though, the answers are gonna sound bitter if you lack testosterone

[Abbi_T]

Where on earth did you hear that. I had a one night stand with a bloke. Next day he turned out to be a douche. Absolutely no attachment. Kicked him into touch fast.

[Vegasrunner]

@Abbi_T How is this relevant to the question?

[Abbi_T]

'Why do women always get attached after a one night stand?'
My answer is very relevant because that is my experience of a one night stand. I did not get attached! The use of the word 'always' seems overstated in the question.

[Vegasrunner]

@Abbi_T You're sharing anecdotal evidence, which os statistically irrelevant to a general statement.

[Abbi_T]

I don't recall you setting such parameters in your question. If you don't want opinions or anecdotes then please specify so I don't waste screen ink on you in future.

[Vegasrunner]

@Abbi_T I need to explain to you that anecdotal evidence doesn't have relevance to a general statement?

[juleyboo74]

Sex is spiritual for women, men enter our body. They come inside. It matters to a woman unlike it would for a man. But women also have a brain, they should have the ability to tell themselves, rationally, that this was just a one night thing.

[serious]

That is a very good question really. I think they just tend to like the man and trust him after having a good night.

[aceleon]

Biological programming for monogamy where it is partnered child raising possible.

[soe11]

• It is both sides too.
• Yes I do agree with you, most of them are female.

[Vegasrunner]

@soe11 The good news is we both agree women do it.

[MOUTHWASHING]

cause they feel insecure of what they done and they pretend its more than a one night stand. they can't accept the truth, that they are just whores

[DCVsMarvel2]

Wouldn't you?

It's also believed that if the "hymen" is really a thing that, for virgins, they get attached to the one who "pops their cherry"

[DrPepper12]

Women need / create an emotional bond for / before / after sex

[Mrtcn01]

it is easy if you fuck someone you create a pipline so the pipline is important.. _D

[zagor]

They don't. Many do, some seem to have no problem with it.

[Eempriyanka]

If the guy kissed or caressed her in a way that would bring forth feelings for the said girl, she might feel stuff for him.. like (love)

[ThebestIndian]

@Eempriyanka I tried messaging you. but could not do it

[Lolita90]

Kadınlar bağlanmaz, erkekler bağlanır, hatta eskortlara aşık olurlar

[Sluttt]

We need attention

[vicphilips]

Are you sure?

[Spencer10]

Always? I have definitely not found that.

[Vegasrunner]

@Spencer10 Really, I've never had a one night stand where the girl doesn't become obsessed w/ me. How many have u you had?

[Spencer10]

A few. Not one time did the woman become obsessed. She knew the score.

[Vegasrunner]

@Spencer10 Are you white by any chance?

[Spencer10]

Irrelevant.

[Vegasrunner]

@Spencer10 Not to the women you're having sex with

[Anonymous]

Maybe your performance was way too good

[MasterKS]

interesting point of view.

[Vegasrunner]

@Anonymous A lot of them tell me that.

[Opinion Owner]

😂😂

[NicholasRedone]

Emotional 😭 😆 men are just callous :(

[Shortkay4568]

Not even half the time

[MrChinaski]

I can assure you that they do not always.

[Anonymous]

Depends on the dude and his character