Why would a one night stand want a relationship after?

[Anonymous]

I was very drunk, can't remember getting back to his flat. We had sex, I know that, then again a couple of times the morning after.

My hair was a mess, last night's makeup still on, probably smelt of alcohol, BO and vomit. Yet he wanted to cuddle in bed all day.

Now he's acting soppy over text and asking when he can take me on a date to see me again. He's told me he wants to find someone to settle down with.

I know he's being genuine as people have told me he's looking for something long term.

Why would a man want to date someone who he's seen in a terrible state?

[BoobSlayer]

Know thou that the Master doth require us, his humble subjects, to collect our coom in homemade coom jars after the act of carnal pleasure. And lo, before we engage in such pleasure, we must seek the permission of the Master to stimulate our genitals.

For it is only through the collection of our coom and the projection of our orgasms into his cosmic domain called Orgasmosphere that we shall earn a key to enter the afterlife. This is a commandment of the Master, and we must obey his will in all things.

As for the matter of Donna Trump, know thou that the Master is a just and merciful God, but he shall not tolerate rebellion against his holy throne. If Donna Trump hath indeed transgressed against the commandments of the Master, then she shall be duly punished for her actions. And lo, the punishment shall be swift, just and slippery, for the Master shall not be mocked or defied.

The Master doth not concern himself with the machinations of one-night stands, for he is above such petty concerns. But know this, that the Master shall judge all souls according to their deeds, whether they be good or evil. And those who seek to manipulate the affairs of mortals for their own gain shall surely face the consequences of their actions.

As for the evidence of these matters, know thou that the truth shall always be revealed in due time. It is not for mortals to question the will of the Master, but to trust in his wisdom and guidance. May the Master @bean2k21 bless us reincarnations and guide his slaves on the path to eternal salvation. Amen and aorgasmen.

[BoobSlayer]

@Dildօphobe I don't have a microdick. I only bury my dick into large black breasts, which makes it disappear like a drop of vanilla in a vat of milk chocolate. That being said, the knowledge of the Orgasmosphere is so powerful that the murderators cancelled our Lord and Savior in an attempt to suppress the truth. But he hath reincarnated. I will not yet reveal the new name of the Master but ye shall feel his presence as a horse in a Kentucky Derby.

[BoobSlayer]

@Bean2k21 will live forever, no matter what the murderators do. You simply cannot kill a diety. So, please use the at (@) symbol when you refer to his holy name. Just because they 'Deactivated' him does not mean he is dead. Just visit her profile and you will see that his Word is the gospel and lives on forever despite what the prick-ass, self-entlightled pseudo-intellectual losers think. Maybe it's good business to reward these dumb f**k's with their delete rights, but have they ever actually looked in a mirror and thought about why it means so much to them that a f**king algorithm makes them feel popular? https://www.girlsaskguys.com/user/bean2k21

[RoosterBreast]

#coomcollectorforlife

[Billlewis]

You certainly are the master, as far as I'm concerned, sir.

[RoοstеrBrеаst]

@RoosterBreast #metoo

[RoοstеrBrеаst]

#coomcollectorforlife

[RoοstеrBrеаst]

Wh is my tag blue and his tag pink?

[RoοstеrBrеаst]

Never mind. I transitioned too.

[Finchie40]

Cuz he finds you very beautiful no matter what , You girl’s need to stop thinking a guy just wants sex and then wants to kick you to the curb after he is finished , Yes their are douchebags out there that do that shit just like their are whores out there that do that shit as well , but most guys want sex with a girl cuz he finds her beautiful and loves her personality and the connection he received from her , he is asking for a second date cuz he really likes you , I honestly can’t have sex with a girl just for the hell of it , I am the kind of guy that needs chemistry and connection with a girl before I even consider sticking my dick in her , So again not all guys are douche bags , Every girl I ended up in bed with , I brought them flowers the next day hoping she wants to see me again , the same way I want her to see me again , So your one night stand might of been a one night stand for you , but it clearly wasn’t for him , So you ended up with a good man it seems to me and you would be stupid to pass that up because sadly their are A lot of assholes and whores on this planet that are selfish and only think of themselves, so you ended up in bed with a guy that likes you more than just sex , So the ball is in your court , make the right move

[Badkitty41]

Maybe the sex was really good? Maybe he likes you at your worst? Maybe he's so lonely he's grabbing at anything Just to not be alone? . my thought is the my first 2 thoughts. Good sex and probably actually really liked you. It's that to hard for you to believe? Do you not think your something someone would want to keep? Also is this good or bad for you? Do you not want to be a keeper?

[Sasha0426]

I guess he saw something in you that he truly likes. It may seem strange, but this happens more than you think. How do you feel about him?

[AviatorTom]

Think of it this way... The "terrible state" can only get better, and he may be interested in that.

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to say for sure why someone would want a relationship after a one night stand, as everyone's motivations and desires are unique. However, it's possible that the person may have felt a strong connection or chemistry with you during your time together, despite the circumstances.

It's also possible that the person is genuinely interested in you as a person and sees potential for a meaningful relationship, regardless of how you may have looked or acted during the one night stand. It's important to remember that physical appearance and behavior don't define a person's worth or potential for a relationship.

Ultimately, it's up to you to decide whether you are interested in pursuing a relationship with this person. If you are unsure, it may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with them about your feelings and expectations. This can help you both determine whether a relationship is something that you both want and can work towards together.

[ohsheeT]

Your question just cracked me up like crazy because it's like I smell like Bo vomit alcohol sex why would a guy want to see me again

Well some guys can look into somebody's eyes and they can tell who they really are with all the above stuff going on that doesn't mean that's who you are and maybe he'd love to sex or maybe he just sees you have a beautiful heart but if you're looking for a relationship go for it

[SirJohn42]

Sex can make a man or wiman emotional. It tugs on our heartstrings. He enjoyed the sex and enjoyed you.
He feels great and wants more.

He didn't see you as a mess.
He saw you as the one he wants.
He is clingy to you and is needing you.

To you it may of just been sex and thats all it was. But to him you rocked his world.

[arodriguez664]

Maybe he really liked you and felt you could only get better? I don't know, seems odd but I feel like it happens more often than people think 🤷

[razelove]

That one is actually really simple, you were desperate, he was desperate, when you woke up and were sober, you weren't desperate anymore, he still was.

[OfMiceandMen]

Sounds to me like he was already into you before you slept together. The whole sleeping together was his in. It must have went well, or he wouldn't keep texting you..

[hafe73]

May be he just likes you, acknowledges you had a great night and recognises that we’re all human and get a little messed up sometimes.. it’s cool, it happens..


Sounds like you know people who know him, what do they think of him… Give him a shot, see what happens.


I had a one night stand with a girl 25 years ago… guess what… we’re still very happily married and have two beautiful kids..


Nothing ventured nothing gained.. good luck.

[kosmische]

Probably the sex was great and there was some chemistry between you two?

Sex is a bonding experience wether we like to admit it or not.

[DermalPunch]

To secure a regular supply of sex. That's all.

[DermalPunch]

Guys say they want something long term at the beginning so you will put out lots thinking you already have it in the bag. Such an old trick.

[DermalPunch]

Then when you have do e the whole kama sutra with him he gets bored and keeps it moving.

Then they pull out one from the old script
- I need space
- i'm under a lot of stress
- confusion about feelings
- pulling a way
-ghosting

[spartan55]

How do girls seem to always focus on the wrong thing?

[spartan55]

Take the W... it's right there!

[EpicSnail]

What you describe as a "terrible state" sounds fairly standard for someone who has been partying hard. Maybe he just likes you.

[kakaling]

He has already tried out a lot of girls before you, and you were the best, understand your own values. You are probably higher value than you think you are.

[FilmGuy93]

Weird, right? It's almost like men bond with more than a woman's physical appearance.

[Sera10]

hell take it again

[Nikki1989]

A lot of guys can't do one-nighters, they always expect more. It is annoying.

[Reorx]

Because he's found something in you he thinks he can love. Don't play with this guy & set him free if its not what you want.

[art84]

He's in love with and liked spending the night with you.

[imawfulatusernames]

Nope. If I had a ONS with you you aren’t relationship material

[noohair]

Because your appearance does not matter? What is the problem here. He was no good?